You categorise ......... yourself to be a Good or Bad person ?
By sunnycool
@sunnycool (12714)
India
November 23, 2010 12:35am CST
Lets get into the BAD of me
I was a troublesome kid right from my childhood ! I'm very short tempered ... i can literally roast your a$$ if you mess with me!
There have been numerous cases where i have gone for fights OVER reasonable stuff (atleast they WERE from my point of view)
Deleted few people from my life (Yup few friends included) ... Ain't got no plans to get back to them until my last breathe!
Punched atleast 20 on their noses (Six had bloody nose...other 14 never came accross them),Slapped more than 10!
Well i never had a tiff with a WOMAN and neither would i anytime soon.
Coming to the Good in ME
I feel bad about the guys who had some deadly blows out of my hands ... isn't it weird but THAT'S ME!
Let us assume i have got nothing good to talk about ... I'm not at ease when it comes to blowing my own tantrums so we shall end this here!
Well you can call me a BAD person coz i have hurted so many people right from my schooling based on the stuff described above and a little good coz i do things which are helpful to others which you are not aware of!
I least care when you tag me to be good or bad coz i'm completely aware of what i'm doing and what matters to me is IF I'M LIVING EVERY SECOND OF MY LIFE WITH OUT ANY GUILTY FEELING not the tags of folks! I HAVE GOT ENOUGH COURAGE TO CONFESS IF I HAD DONE ANYTHING WRONG !
... there are people who like and dislike me for the very reasons i have mentioned above!
I give a fcuking $hit to those who tag me with some BS words based upon some meanlingless comments made by an absolute NOOB! Grrrrrhhhhhh!
How about you ... would you consider yourself to be a good or a bad person ?
Are you one of those who thrive to be called "Good"! Above all would you try to impress someone to bear a GOOD tag ?
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25 responses
@CandyRayne (458)
• United States
23 Nov 10
I would have to say I am in the middle. I do my fair share of good and bad thing and I am sure I will continue that way.
I do however seem to be a good judge of how people are, so it can be easy for my to pin a good or bad person lable on someone.
Sometimes it is instant or could take a few hours or even years to judge. But I usually and right. Or atleast thats is what I am told.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Nov 10
Wooow ... there isn't anything good about me in my post lol except a couple of points!
@TheKingMan (292)
• India
23 Nov 10
No sunny!
You do have something good in you!
Know what?
Should I tell it?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Nov 10
We hardly know each other mate ... then how can you categorise me ?
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
23 Nov 10
I am a warm, kind hearted person of which a great many people take advantage of. However, little do they know I do not get mad, by no means I get even. I know exactly how to defend myself and well anyone who thinks they get beat me, may succeed but the both of us are going to be hurt.
This comes after the many years of being taken advantage of.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
24 Nov 10
You know what women are an exception lol so you would always be spared!
K!ss from femalien,Hugs from PA what next
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
23 Nov 10
i am a good girl, i am too crazy to do anything wrong, i try my best to be a s good as i can be, of course you know, no one likes polly anna, uh oh, sorry i am so unloveable!!!
@TheKingMan (292)
• India
23 Nov 10
Hello, I see you're a good girl samafayla33
But hey, I have a question here.
Are those colors used to color lips edible?
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
23 Nov 10
Well, I try to be a good person, but I know that there are times when I fall extremely short of my goal. I am not as concerned about the labels that other people put on me as long as I am being as true to myself and my beliefs as I possibly can be and trying to set a the best example that I can for my children. I don't expect everyone else to agree with me or to think the same way that I do, so I guess that there are some that will think that I am bad and others that will think I am good. I am just trying to do the best I can at being me.
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
24 Nov 10
Sunny - I honestly can't say that I have never been bothered by the tags that others have put on me, because there are times that it has hurt me, especially when I am trying to do the right thing and all others can see and focus on is a tiny piece of the big picture. However, I try not to let it bother me as much as possible, especially when the labels they try to put on me are just petty nonsense and not what really matters in life.
Alice - Thank you for the compliment. I definitely agree that it is the differences in us as well as the similarities that make life not only interesting but also so much fun! I think that mistakes are alright as long as we can learn something valuable from them - otherwise they are not mistakes but merely bad choices that we continue to make.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
24 Nov 10
Absolutely ... your entire life would be in vain if you think of impressing someone or get bothered about the tags you have been assigned! Its always good to go for people who love and like the way you're than to go for someone who never found a single reason to be with you!
So the little one creates new records very much like her mom does huuuuh
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@TheKingMan (292)
• India
23 Nov 10
Well, in my opinion, we're neither good nor bad when we do things which are morally correct.
Sometimes, being angry with someone in appropriate. And sometimes we should stay cool.
Anyway, we need to think too much before doing anything so as to prevent the feeling of guilt.
Cheers Sunny, nice topic.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Nov 10
I'm glad to be in a state where i'm able to control myself unlike the way i used to loosen my hand just like that ... I was never unhappy about the guys i fought with except that i feel bad about is that i shouldn't have hurted so badly!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Nov 10
In regards with your comment in the first box ... Only those folks fear to confess who try to hide stuff or involve in illegal activities which i'm not doing in any possible way! So i do not have to fear anyone in revealing the deeds i'm part of !
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
24 Nov 10
So you consider yourself to be moderate haha!
@PS --- sometimes its hard to digest!
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
26 Nov 10
My worst flaws are that I have been careless and a procrastinator from my youth. I'm working on these traits but doubt that I'll ever completely eradicate them. Yes, I 'm one of those people who wants to be known as a good person. I do not understand any person who does not.
@6precious102 (4043)
• United States
27 Nov 10
I have made mistakes, who hasn't? There are things I've done for which I'm ashamed. But basically I'm a good person. I'd rather be good. I see no point or profit in being bad.
@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
5 Jan 11
I dont usually catergorize myself, I dont like being labeled, even by myself
I am ME! I am both good and bad
I would help a stranger in need but them beat them down if they crossed me
I have many good qualities but just as many bad ones
I am just ME and if people dont like me then they dont have to be around me
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
I'm consider myself good. I keep myself to have respect with other people. Remember God as my Creator and Savior. A bad person doesn't care for other people's feeling, or even the right to live. They are the ones who hate seeing happy people. They are the ones who feel miserable of themselves. They don't even remember God, or blame God for their problems.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Nov 10
.... but i believe in god ... when it comes to caring ... my family,friends and one crazy vampire come first!
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
23 Nov 10
Well i am good and bad by myself only. I don't need someone to evaluate me if i am good or bad. I know myself like no one else.
Seems you have an instinct for kick boxing or something like that. Are you a boxer or a Wrestler? Maybe you should be you know that? Well if you nothing good to talk about then you would just talk about what all you have done and let people be the judge of that. But since you have no regrets then you won't have anything to fear from.
I have some regrets but i am not gonna sit down and regret or cry about them. Just have to move on you know?
Well i like you i guess!!!
Cheers!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Nov 10
Moving on isn't that easy in certain aspects ... there are folks who accepts the way things are going on the other hand there are others who achieve their goals which creep in between!
btw i'm no boxer ... always loved rocky movies though
@kartiknaiduk (275)
• India
23 Nov 10
I feel that no person is a good person or a bad person. Many times we do good things like helping others. This is good. And many times we do bad things, give bad words to others especially when we are angry. Both the things are being done by us, the same person. So, I feel one cannot say whether a person is good or bad.
Again, I you had done something bad for some others it might be good for some other people. So, good to some is bad to some and vice versa.
But it is not totally wrong to judge any person, if he is good or bad. If most of the deeds done by a person are good the he is good and if opposite is the case then he is bad.
As far as I am concerned, I feel I am a good chap, most of the times I help others, avoid bad things. But however sometimes i do bad things.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Nov 10
What matters the most is if you're happy with what you're doing mate ... if you start considering the likes of other people then you would be tooo busy impressing for your lifetime!
Well forgot to add ... i even use bad words lol!Such a good attribute to own haha
Seriously...i do whatever seems okay for me at the same time i do not have to beg others to accept my way of thinking and considering stuff!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
24 Nov 10
There are people who curse themselves for being bad in later ages of their life ... at the same time there are folks who try not to be tooo good as they stand a chance of getting used by the selfish ones!
As of your response you wish to be called Mr.Bad
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Nov 10
hi sunnycool honesty will get you far as far as I am concerned i would trust an honest person who says he had done bad and good than a hypocrite who declares hes the best one who ever lived and yet does bad things abd lies about it all the t ime. I am a good person most of the time but I have a quick temper so am not good all the time either, I am a human being and humans will make errors. I try to be good not for others but for my own self esteem.I do not try to impress anyone with my behavior good or bad. lol lol. I will only tag you as honest and human.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
24 Nov 10
As much as I do not agree with violence, your description was admirable from your honesty and I sense some justice. I've actually been living my life as a people pleaser and always strove to be 'good'. But after a few years ago, my life flipped over and made me realize that I've been always lying to myself. Pleasing people may be a "good" thing but it's not necessarily honest and free. Although, I don't intend to be a "bad" person now from what I've learn, but I think I will follow more of my heart now.
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
23 Nov 10
Hi sunnycool. Every person is tagged bad or good based upon how he/she treats the others and behaves with them. In that case, most of them would consider me bad. But like you said, it would be something very right from my point of view. So there you are. I just make sure that I don't spoil another person's life in any way and that no body should be affected by what I say or do. But that too, depends on how serious the issue is.
On the whole, I would consider myself good, with shades of gray in between
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
24 Nov 10
I think a person can be good for one person and same person can be bad for another person. I believe that there are some beliefs in everybody's mind that this is good and this is bad, and everybody decides their good and bad by themselves. One will appreciate you for kicking somebody's a$$ and other may say that he is a non violent person. So this varies from person to person. Every person is good for himself. For me I think I am good person.
@marapplestiffy (2182)
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
I don't think I'm bad, just fairly mean to my enemies, and fiercely loyal to people I love...