How seriously you take your membership in mylot?
By Suggar
@Suggar (3606)
Bulgaria
November 23, 2010 4:15am CST
Hello friends, i want to ask you, how seriously you take your membership in mylot?
I'm here since 6 months now and i can say that i have moments when i leave mylot for months, then i'm back and i see that everything is normal. People are still the same great people i remember.
But last days i saw some serious discussions about the members of mylot. About the discussions, about rating, about marking best response, about evaluation and i can say that's not normal for me. So far i made great friendships, builded on my positive attitude. So far i made some really good discussions, where people could write whatever they want and i felt really good answering them, even if their answers was not for the point of the discussion.
I'm just that kind of person, who doesn't like to be bad and to waste time with his bad emotions. As example - if i don't like some answer in my discussion i can do only one and it's pass it just without answering. I know i can rate negative or like that, but we are all here because we have fun and there is nothing bad if we think different of each other. I just don't take so serious my membership here. If i can give something good - smile, emotion, funny story or serious question i'm interested to know how the other people think, it will be good for me to do it. If i can't, i just stay calm and look where i really want to answer.
What about you? Do you show your madness here?
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4 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
23 Nov 10
Hi dear,
I really got relaxed when I read your words. Today, when I opened my mails, I got so disappointed that yesterdays one normal discussion ended with just 4-5 words of response. Today when I saw that the responder furiously revert back and even shouted at me. Initially, I felt bad but I couldn’t see anything wrong from my side.
The querist asked one question and I responded that ‘I will revert the response with the answer on the next day’. But the reply was quite surprising and first I thought I will delete my myLot membership itself. But, I felt do cool after sometime with certain other alternatives.
You are so nicely talked that if we don’t feel like answering, just ignore it. The problems get over there. Unwanted and unnecessary usage of words and such things are not at all effective. It is now people like you is a motivational factor for all and I think you will keep continue in myLot. If possible, be regular and you will get empowered.
Regards,
Thank-s
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
23 Nov 10
Hello friend, don't give up because of someone. This place is yours so much, as it is on the other person, so don't give up because of him. What we show as attitude here is our own problem, it doesn't have to be a problem for the others. This is why i'm keeping my positive thinking when i write. I think that others don't need my shouting, we all have different problems and we are not here only to earn, but to enjoy too.
What i read few days ago, about the negative voting and so on such things, i said myself "girl, who need to be careful who you respond to, the person may not like your answer, because of some reason and he may give you a minus, so don't waste your time with some people". This is all. Negative voting doesn't bother me, actually. What bothers me is that someone feels like a special one and all the responses he receive must be responses taken from some book or something.
I remember, it's said in the FAQ's that we don't have to put recipes. Why is this about? May be because the adventures of the forum want everyone to be himself, not to steal words or to write words accidently.
Negative voting doesn't bother me, actually. What bothers me is that someone feels like a special one and all the responses he receive must be responses taken from some book or something.
I remember, it's said in the FAQ's that we don't have to put recipes. Why is this about? May be because the adventures of the forum want everyone to be himself, not to steal words or to write words accidently. @thanks1961 (7035)
• India
23 Nov 10
Hi dear,
It is alright now. I am a bit slender in mind, so that it slightly hurt me. But I am fine and ok now. As you said, not giving too much importance to it. Afterwards, when I gone through the entire discussion, I felt for me it is ok, some others are still bothered with still worsen usage of words like – ‘I don’t care’ etc. So, it shows some people culture and manner and it is not necessary that all should behave nicely, thinking that they are not at home or not speaking to someone at home.
Thanks for your comments.
Regards,
Thank-s
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Nov 10
I am the same way. I try to put up good quality discussions, which I expect people to respond to. And I try to put in honest and good responses too.
As far as the rating goes. I do not put anything bad against anybody. But I try and give positive ratings to people who give great answers. It's an incentive for all those that try, because the BR can only be given to one person.
@onlineraket (189)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
I guess not really. It is better to show good attitude and build friendships here rather than comment in a negative way. Somehow is more uplifting to post something positive and touch people lives by making comments in a sincere yet positive way. What do you get when you response negatively? I guess nothing.
I believe that one of the intangibles of mylot it that it brings people closer. Different views from different walks of life is really what is interesting here.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
23 Nov 10
I had great times. First i was confused, i didn't know what to write for. I had some bad discussions without any answers, so i stopped posting discussions, just responded. Then i started to feel mylot as a family. We are all here for the same reasons - to relax and enjoy our time here and to earn some coins.
I wouldn't insult members of my own family or if i do it, i'll make some soft way to tell my believes, without insulting someone else.
