do you have a friend who have a b/f or g/f who ego is big
By syankee525
@syankee525 (6261)
United States
November 23, 2010 6:46am CST
here what it is. my best friend who's a female have a new b/f and his ego is to big to me. he is suppose to be this techo dj, and brags about how much he spends on his clothes, how great he is, and how much money (used to have) and other stuff.
but my friend let me hanging twice because of him, suppose to had done stuff but left me sitting and waiting on her.
my thing i just want her to be happy its a total different life style from me. im more kick back and laid back, i dont get into that sene. and to how much paid for his clothes, or whatever dont impress me.
so i told her if she keeps let me waiting on her because she allow him to pull her away when we are suppose to do something i might not be waiting, and will suck up to him and his ego.
to me money and what someone paid for clothes dont impress me, its what you do with your money if you have lot of it or little. i can say when i was 20 i was vince princedent of a securty company and bought my own house. but ive always reached out to those who didnt or dont have as much as me.
so i told her next time mr big shot wanted to brag i will tell him he dont or nor does all that dont impress me
how would you handle this?
5 responses
@d2ethcano (22)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
As it is... We are not created equally! Some have more pads on their shoulder than the coat hanger in their closets.
I would have told my best friend exactly as you have done; and more. I would have advised her take a hold of the next mirror and let his b/f do the talking so she'll be able to recognized the true nature of Him. She might be blinded by his great looks or his magnetic aura, that lets him get away with being egoistic; but it should not hinder her from doing the right thing and presumably costing a friendship on the line.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
25 Nov 10
have to remember this one.. lol. well i was going to tell him if he want to impress me then he can pull his thing and do himself and that would impress me for real.
told her i was going to say.. she was like you will not will you ? oh yes i will i did it to my other female freind b/f his look priceless
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
25 Nov 10
yeah i can see this happening. were we wont be talking. i just refuse to build someone ego up for him or her.
but i will make it clear he dont impress me at me.
i have things i could brag about but i don't but next time i will point it out to him things i have done. and see his reaction
thanks
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
I don't think that'll work. Just ignore him. Mr. Big shots like that only wanted to be noticed. If you say anything concerning his attitude, you're actually showing that you are noticing him, which is what he wanted you to do.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
I don't think that'll work. Just ignore him. Mr. Big shots like that only wanted to be noticed. If you say anything concerning his attitude, you're actually showing that you are noticing him, which is what he wanted you to do.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Nov 10
I don't think that'll work. Just ignore him. Mr. Big shots like that only wanted to be noticed. If you say anything concerning his attitude, you're actually showing that you are noticing him, which is what he wanted you to do.