Our Minds Reaction
By chocaly
@chocaly (26)
Singapore
November 23, 2010 1:57pm CST
Have you realised that many of us only like a person by what clothing they are in and prefer them evn better when they dress even more unique sorta-say? Curiousity may kill a cat but a human is cautious(sorta made that up),anyway,what is it in our mind that causes this? So are we turned on by the person or their clothes?
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
24 Nov 10
Hiya chocaly,
You can notice a Person´s clothes but not really the Person themselves. Once or twice I have seen someone wearing a nice thing and I have only thought "I wonder where she bought that from".
But being cautious like you say it prevents me from asking them personally.
So I try to look around Shops to see if I see something similar and not what the Person is actually wearing.
Sometimes I will see a Man nicely dressed and will think to myself the compliments. I don´t say them out loud either.
Mainly I look at a Person not for the Clothes but for the way they are the way they come across. But more than once I have liked what someone is wearing that´s only natural too don´t you think?
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
31 Dec 10
Hiya chocaly,
Just yesterday I was watching a Lady on the Television and thinking where did she get that lovely Jumper from? I often do that I see something I like but it´s almost always on the Television that I see it. That is what is so annoying because when I go to a Shop I cannot find anything similar. I wonder if they have their Clothes made outside of this Country?
Well and because they are TV Presenters you cannot go up to them and ask them as you don´t where they work or live or what do you? So I will have to keep guessing. 
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
23 Nov 10
I think the people who aren't dressed appropriate to us are a turnoff. In some cases to us they look like they have no class or are absolutely nobodys. Also, when some look at others who are dressed tacky to us or completely in clothes we wouldn't even have in our houses to dust with, we don't want to speak to them because we don't want anyone to see us associating with them.
Now. I was talking about 'people'. Now I'll talk about 'this person'. I am one of those right now who is not dressing in style or unique or flashy or attractive. My wardrobe, that I wear, at this time, is t-shirts, jeans, capris of no style. Just a comfortable as I can be.
I notice people don't have alot to say to me, but you know what? That's exactly what I want in my life right now. I'm in this frame of mind where when I have to go to a store or business, I don't want to be noticed. I'm looked at in passing and no second looks. There's nothing to look at.
I'm comfortable. But I'm sure, God willing, I will come out of this.
