should i accompany to my girl friend

Hi! It is true that long distance relationships most of the time don't work. But the reason is because of loss of communication. I don't think and I don't see any reason for you to quit your job. As long as you keep in touch with her and as long as you make her feel she is important for you and you love her, your relationship would never be over (unless the problem is with her). Also, I think you should talk to her heart to heart and ask her if she is happy with your relationship or not, and why or why not. That way, you will know what she really feels towards your relationship and you can make adjustments accordingly if needed. Though a friend's advice is good, it would always be better for you to know what exactly your girlfriend wants and expects before you do things. Remember, it is between you and her and not any other people. :D

I agree with the last poster that your seeing her. You should stay at your job. Can you talk to her online? My husband and I had a long distance relationship when we first started dating and have been together over 30 years. I'm certain they work, but like all relationships not every relationships works and distance doesn't doom a relationship.

You don't have to quit your job for her. Although I believe in out of sight out of mind, I have few friends who were able to work out a long distance relationship and they were even from different countries. As long as you both truly love each other, there's no reason to be insecure. And as what you've said, you still see each other once a month and that's good already. If it doesn't work out, it's not because you were far away from each other but because you're just not meant for each other.

If you two get on well with each other, why bother about the distance? Long distance might cause some problems,but it can't be the main reason for lovers to break up.On the contrary,true love won't fade away because of distance. So if you are happy together, don't worry about it.