What if you got a relationship with a married person?

that's really terrible...for me it was the same as cheating, though I love the married guy I'd better set him free because there is no good relationship when your partner is not true to me or fooling me from the very beginning, in the end of that relationship we might still giving up everything because of dishonesty and untrustworthy.

I would break up with him even if I loved him so much...I don't wanna ruin any family. I'll have to sacrifice my own happiness for others.

It would be heartbreaking to find out my lover was married and did not tell me. I would have a hard time believing what I was told when the relationship was no truthful from the start. How could this person be faithful to me when he was not faithful to another he was married to. i would have to break off the relationship no matter how I felt about him.

Why would he hide his real status in the first place? That person is up to no good, I tell you. If he is not happy with his wife or his marriage, he should have been open about it in the first place. I think the reason why he did not admit it to you because he is not willing to give up on it and choose you. You are bound to become a mistress if you continue your relationship with him. Put yourself in his wife's shoe. What would you feel if your husband is having an affair? I believe you are still single. Find a man that is worthy of you. One where you can love openly without breaking any rules or hurting someone. Turn away from your current situation before you regret it.

Well I think the guy was not really sincere because if he does from the very start he should tell his real status that he was already a married man. Because he should now the consequence that might happen to both of you if he will not tell you the truth. I know how hurt it is to leave him if you already fallen to him, but make up your mind you better thin of the future and not for this day only. Pray hard and the Lord will guide you, goodluck!

i wouldn't for sure, i find it disgusting and a coward, whoever cheats i was very intersted in a guy, really in love to him and find out he was married, he only told me preatty later, we had nothing together but it was clear that we were intersted in each other, he wouldn't even wear a ring!!! i run away as fast as i could, no way!!!

Personally, I will set him free and find myself a single guy. Being with a married person is too much complicated and I don't think it will be worth of the consequences. Even if they get a divorce, there's still the matter of their children. Whatever your decision will be, you must prepare yourself for the consequences. If you pursue with your relationship then be ready for any positive or negative things that you will get from his family and children. Good luck!

This is really a hard situation, but you have to consider that if that person was worthy of your love he would never have made you love them since they're already committed. Get mad! And move on... You might say it's easy for me to say this because I'm not the one in the situation, but I experienced this, not that he was married but he was getting married! It's hard especially if you've fallen hard already but think of the other person, the wife or the husband, can you bear to live with the knowledge that you hurt someone intentionally? yes, you didn't know at first but now you do, so you have to end it...