Turkey Or Ham?
By cyrus123
@cyrus123 (6363)
United States
November 24, 2010 12:07am CST
Which do you prefer for Thanksgiving and Christmas Dinner? Turkey or ham? I prefer either one, myself. I guess when I really think about it, I prefer turkey for Thanksgiving because that's what Thanksgiving is all about pretty much. If there happens to be both for both occasions, I get a helping of both, lol! I was talking to a girl about this the other day and she said she preferred ham because it was more moist. I thought this would make a good discussion topic. I hope everyone on here has a Happy Thanksgiving!
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14 responses
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
25 Nov 10
I would rather have duckling for Christmas and lamb -- well, that rhymes with ham? Actually, it doesn't really matter. I've never understood why people think they have to eat a particular food for each holiday. We should all be thankful if we have something tasty to eat and friends to enjoy it with, eh? But yes, it is an appropriate topic. Happy Thanksgiving!
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Yes, we should be thankful we have something to eat and friends to share it with period. We should be thankful all the time, not just on Thanksgiving. It's traditional to eat turkey on Thanksgiving Day since it was the main dish of the first Thanksgiving when the pilgrims came. I can't imagine Thanksgiving without turkey, dressing, cranberry sauce, etc., myself. I hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving, too!
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
25 Nov 10
At Thanksgiving and at Christmas we have turkey and ham. I preferr the turkey. The ham,sometimes,is alittle on the dry side! Especially when my brothr-in-law smokes on the grill! I take a good helping of the turkey and most of the side dishes like otoatoes and stuffing! Happy Thanksgiving!
@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
25 Nov 10
This all sounds so good! I think it might be a good idea to have turkey and ham for both occasions in case some people prefer one over the other. I believe I would really miss turkey if we didn't have it for Thanksgiving, though, because that's always been the main dish. Thank you for responding and I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving, too!
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@AmbiePam (93968)
• United States
24 Nov 10
Usually, wherever I am we have both turkey and ham. I'm almost always at my grandmother's house. I am not really crazy about either, but I'll take turkey over ham. I like the dark meat more than the white meat. The food I enjoy most on Thanksgiving is usually the side dishes.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
26 Nov 10
Hi AmbiePam! I forgot when I started this discussion that some people have chicken for Thanksgiving. What made me think of this is that a lady I used to go to church with brought me a meal later this afternoon and it consisted of chicken, dressing, cranberry sauce, green beans, corn, a roll, and some cake. This is what I had for my supper. I spent Thanksgiving Day with my sister, her husband, and my neice and what we had there wasn't too good, I hate to say. They got their turkey, dressing, cranberry sauce, etc. from a restaurant here in town and I think they're sorry they did now. I had a good day considering, though.
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
25 Nov 10
We do turkey on Thanksgiving. And we have ham on Christmas, usually. But we like both and can interchange them whenever we feel like it. Our family has been known to have both at each holiday too.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
25 Nov 10
I think it's a good idea to interchange every once in a while. I can't imagine Thanksgiving without turkey, though. That was the main dish for the first Thanksgiving, if you remember from your history. We haven't always had both at each holiday but I have been to both thanksgiving and Christmas parties where they had both. Thank you for responding and I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving tomorrow!
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
24 Nov 10
I am not a fan of turkey at all, but for some reason Turkey is a must on Thanksgiving for my family. I remember a few years ago I had to take the kids out of town in an emergency on Thanksgiving Day, upon arriving at the hotel, we went to eat in the dinning room.
My kids were so upset with me as the turkey sandwiches just did not cut it. Some how it is a bonding dinner we have on the one special day with out big fat turkey.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
25 Nov 10
So, I guess you would prefer ham to turkey anytime, wouldn't you? If you remember your history, turkey was the main dish for the first Thanksgiving. That might be why it's such a must your family. I can't imagine Thanksgiving without turkey, myself. Thank you for responding and I hope youall have a Happy Thanksgiving!
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@maryann16 (1)
• United States
24 Nov 10
I prefer turkey for both Thanksgiving and Christmas. In my family, ham was typically reserved for Easter, although I know that for many people, a traditional "Christmas ham" is a big part of their holiday traditions. As you said, turkey and Thanksgiving go hand-in-hand, so I could not imagine celebrating that particular holiday without a turkey dinner.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
26 Nov 10
It seems like I remember having ham for Easter when I was a child. We used to go to my grandparents' house and have an Easter Dinner after church. Afterwards, my cousins and I would have an egg hunt down there. That was always a lot of fun! We had a pretty big family! Thank you for responding.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
26 Nov 10
ways fixed ham for both then I got a smoker and I do turkey and a pork shoulder they turn out perfect and no turkey is left! But this year we had ham fr easrier than smokeing for me at this time just pop it in the oven the oven does the work lolololol
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
9 Dec 10
I didn't know it was possible to eat ham without the fat. I went to Weight Watchers years ago and I don't think it was allowed on that diet. It might be now, for all I know, because it was 1983 when I went the last time. The Weight Watchers diet has changed so much over the years. I have also been on a high fiber diet and ham wasn't allowed on that diet, either. You learn something all the time, though.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
30 Nov 10
It doesn't matter to me. I like both but I think turkey is more appropriate for Thanksgiving since that was the main dish of the pilgrims and Indians when the pilgrims came over on the Mayflower. I hardly ever eat ham because I'm usually trying to watch my weight. I don't worry about my weight during the holidays since everything's going to be fattening, anyway, lol. It's a treat to have ham on these occasions.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
24 Nov 10
It is more of a tradtion for Canadians (Canucks) to have ham on our Thanksgiving, as it is related to the harvest, many more Canadians raised Pigs...than Turkeys! Altho, the tradition is coming from the Pilgrims, we celebrate in Canada but about a month and a half earlier than you. Being further North, our harvest was about a month earlier. And it was normal, a pig was raised for winter's food...and of course, all home processed. Turkeys, being harder to raise are usually purchased here, or for the financially depressed...a couple of chickens were baked for Christmas. I am happy to have ham at Thanksgiving..and turkey for Christmas! Take care and Cheers, Kath...Happy Thanksgiving.....we are setting all sorts of cold records here....unheard of temperatures Minus 17 which I think would be about 20 below F! We have never had MINUS temps before January.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
25 Nov 10
Good morning, Shellyann....and dear Kath! Good thing for all of us, that the Pilgrims brought Turkeys, instead of Donkey's...'cuz you know then what we would be eating at Thanksgiving.
English is...was and hopefully will always be our primary language...remember we are British descendants, and still a member of the Monarchy! The main reflection of our heritage is British..and ofcourse, in the East, we have Quebec, the one province with French heritage. Like the US, we have indigenous people's and immigrants of all nationalities. If you went to sleep in the US and woke up in Canada, I think the only way you could tell the difference is the higher prices...LOL!
For Shellyann's info, and possibly you don't remember, Kath...I live on a small Island off the West Coast of British Columbia...and realistically just below the 49th parallel...our weather is normally VERY mild, and below zero temps are NOT normal, other than two or three times during the month of January! But thankfully we do experience the beautiful four seasons. This is the second time in 35 years (that I can remember) that we have had snow before January...and we usually only get 2-3 snowfalls, that last 2-3 days! SO, like the rest of the world we are experiencing EXTREME weather...and sent a lot of us into weather shock....and caught lots of people unawares.We are not the frozen North...no Igloos or dog sleds where I live. Our summers normally hoover between 75 to 95 F. HAPPY "US" THANKSGIVING, to you both! Cheers!
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@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
25 Nov 10
pergammano that does make lots of sense. Thank you for sharing that. Now I can say I know more about Canada's holiday traditions! Yikes on the weather! Minus 17 already... BRRRRR cold, that is why I love to live in the South! The high was a nice 63 here today. Cheers!
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Thank you for responding, pergammano. This is interesting info! I never have thought of Canada as like a foreign country because I know a lot of you speak English up there. I probably told you this before but I visited up there in 1989. I was with a tour group and we toured places like Winnipeg, Manitoba, Banff, Alberta, etc. We had a great time and it's beautiful country up there! That's very cold!!! I figured it got cold like this all the time in the winter up there. You learn something new all the time, though. Try to stay warm, lol! That does seem unusually cold for this time of year!
Shellyann, where do you live in the south? I live in Alabama.
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@zhpshql (693)
• China
25 Nov 10
Hi,Cathy...Happy thanksgiving day.We don't have this day here..if you know...And I even haven't eaten Turkey once..Maybe I should have a try...I heard from my friends that the turkey is not very delicious..I always thought that the turkey is so fat to eat..anyway,I will have a try..and happy today..
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
26 Nov 10
Hi, zhpshql. It depends on the turkey and how it is prepared, but it can be very delicious. I like the shaved turkey from a deli, which comes with different flavors and there is no fighting with bones. Sometimes when people bake the whole turkey in the oven then parts of it can come out dry, but that is the fault of the cook, not of the turkey.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
26 Nov 10
Hi Frank! Thank you for responding. Drannhh is right. It depends on the turkey and how it is prepared. I think it's good when it's moist. You should try some turkey sometime. You might like it. I forgot when I started this discussion that some people have chicken for Thanksgiving. That's what I had for my supper tonight, along with dressing, cranberry sauce, green beans, corn, a roll, and some cake. A lady I used to go to church with brought it to me earlier this afternoon. I celebrated Thanksgiving with my sister, her husband, and my neice and what we had for lunch today wasn't too good, I hate to say. They got it from a restaurant here in town.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
24 Nov 10
Good morning Kathy, i hope u have a great thanksgiving to. I usually fix both because i like both & so do my kids. I don't mind having leftovers when it comes to turkey & ham.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
26 Nov 10
I like both, too. I had a pretty good Thanksgiving considering what we had to eat today wasn't too good, I hate to say. Also, my bil was in his usual sour mood. I've learned to overlook him, though. They got their turkey, dressing, cranberry sauce, etc. from a restaurant here in town and I think they're sorry they did now. A lady I used to go to church with brought me some food later this afternoon and it was much better than what we had for lunch. I had it for my supper and it consisted of chicken, dressing, cranberry sauce, green beans, corn, a roll, and some cake. I forgot when I started this discussion that some people have chicken for Thanksgiving.
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Happy Thanksgiving to you!
Well, we do not have thanksgiving celebration here so my family has not really tried having a whole turkey. Christmas celebration does not seem complete for me without ham, though. I love ham and I think I get the biggest portion whenever we have ham at home
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
27 Nov 10
Heyya cyrus! Tradition at my house has always been Turkey for Thanksgiving and Ham for Christmas. We actually considered lamb but decided to eat out this year instead. We didn't have family close and my children were all here and there. It was just going to be three of us so we decided to go out to eat.
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@skylark35 (384)
• United States
24 Nov 10
Well we have a big family so we get a turkey and a ham and then there not much left .
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
26 Nov 10
I know what you mean! I grew up in a big family but we didn't always have both a turkey and a ham for Thanksgiving and Christmas. There never was much left over, though, lol! Actually, I had one older brother and two older sisters but when you think about all the cousins, aunts, and uncles I had, it was a pretty big family! Thank you for responding.