Has someone ver been angry with you for not answering posts?
By ersmommy1
@ersmommy1 (12588)
United States
November 24, 2010 2:55pm CST
Since the birth of my son( he is almost 2) I have spent a lot less time here. I get on maybe 2 times a month. I used to be here daily. I had a Mylot friend who deleted me from his list of friends. I can only think it is because I wasn't on as frequently in recent months. Has this happened to you?
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7 responses
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Nov 10
hi ersmommy 1 I think we started here about the same time but I am elderly and retired so have so much more time than a mom of a two
year old would have. I do not think I have been deleted but I have over 800 friends, all peoplo who asked to be my friends not any that i ASKED TO BE FRIENDS with.I seldom delete anyone unless they are on my list and have not been here for months then I do as the list is so huge and those who are gone are going to get deleted. I do not delete those whom I know are like you jus busy and cannot be on there a lot. but those who seem to have fled the lot I finally will delete.
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@theDeranged (96)
• Canada
24 Nov 10
I only just started here, but I have to say that if he deleted you for not posting, he was more interested in making a penny off you than he was in your actual input. Forget him. Not worth it.
You can also ask him why he deleted you. Maybe he has a valid reason?
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
24 Nov 10
I think you are right. Yes I asked him, haven't gotten a response.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
25 Nov 10
I am sure if I went and checked my friends list there would be people who are still active here who have chosen to delete me as well. I have not been as active as I used to be either due to a lot of things going on in my life as well, but am here when I can be. I was wondering about you, and Glad to see you are still around. Has it really been almost 2 yrs. since your son was born? Wow how time flies.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
25 Nov 10
I never had anyone delete me because I did not answer their posts. Most of the time it was because I did answer the post and I did not agree with their point of view, they thought because of my answer I was something I was not - a very bad person - but not because I did not answer their post.
I do think that the reason I do not answer the posts, is not just because Mylot would delete it, but the answer would give a wrong impression about me or I know nothing about the subject. But really to delete for not answering? With all the friends most of us have here on myLot we would have to be awake 24 hours a day and not eat nor drink to get to answer all our friends.
@hushi22 (4928)
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25 Nov 10
i never encountered such, but i had a problem before with one mylotter who sent me a message saying i shouldn't not post a lot (i posted 4 discussion in a day and responded to about 100 in a day). he told me i should respond to the friends discussion and not post many. he was annoyed with the notifications that i posted discussions.
then, i wondered if i did something wrong so i used it for a discussion and he found it out. he kinda got pissed off and he made his own discussion that somehow seemed like a troll.
i think he was really angry at me, but i still dont know why. i have read on his post at some point that he was warned by the admin.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
24 Nov 10
I've stayed pretty regular on here since I've joined. I may lose interest every so often and not post as much.. but I've always kept my notifications on, so if a friend starts a discussion I'll always get it in my inbox and usually will respond, even if I don't come to the site to look up other discussions or even start any of my own.
I'm sure I have been deleted off people's friends over time for whatever reason.. I just haven't paid much attention. If they don't want to be friends with me, I don't really care one way or the other, it's not going to break my heart.