Live single or live married
By sawant1982
@sawant1982 (100)
India
13 responses
@Norwegiankid (30)
•
28 Dec 10
Both!
When you are young you live free. No commitment. Always being able to party without worrying if someone is going to get mad at you. So when you are done partying and having fun you can start looking for the right one and eventually start a family. That is my plan.
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 10
Depends, I agree. I am 34, and still single. Some of my friends are still single. that doesn`t mean they don`t want to get married, I, of course, want to get married. But rather force your heart to a relationship that makes you feel uncomfortable, it is better to be single. I am not that picky, I know nobody`s perfect, but of course, we have to choose. not the perfect one, but someone whom we love and live us and ready to take us as we are.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
27 Nov 10
I am living as a single women right now, and I am in a relationship, but when I get out of college, I will consider marriage, maybe. Right now, I can't see myself getting married.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Nov 10
It is hard to say. Marrying to a wrong person can give you suffering life. However, I have heard that usually the married people have longer lives than the single ones. So probably it is still better to get married. Try to imagine you will have a spouse who will take care of you when you are sick. And he/she will share your happiness and sadness. You can trust him/her. A single life can be sad especially in some important festivals such as the Valentine's Day, Christmas and so on. And especially when your friends get married and have their children. It is hard for you to get together because they have to take care their family at first. And you will feel lonely at that time.
I love China
@hanni711 (243)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
For me, being married or single is a choice. Other people don't like the idea of being married because they don't like committment. While others get married because they want to have a family they can call their own. It really takes a tough decision to be single or married.
@nerein (283)
• United States
30 Nov 10
When it comes to being married or single I think that it depends on how it makes the person feel. As well it depends on if the person is capable of being committed to a marriage as well.
There are some people in the world who prefer to be single wanting only the occasional casual dating thing. Where there are some people who are very interested in being married and are capable of being married forever. Like I said in the beginning it all depends on how a person feels about the two. As well it depends on which of the two the person is capable of handling, and as well it mostly depends on what the person wants to do with there life. Some people want to get married.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
25 Nov 10
You can be happy regardless of the marital status you choose! Happiness has nothing to do with anything that is outside of you including a loving husband! Certainly having people who love you in life is an enhancement and something that we all need but whether it has to be in the form of marriage or not is entirely up to the individual as joy is inside all of us if we care to find it!
@invisiblelady (1655)
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
At age 22, I'm truly enjoying my life being single and free from commitments. But just like some others, I have plans of getting married someday and build a family of my own. I can say that it is nice being single but there's something different kind of joy that a married life can bring to one person. However, it still depends on how you feel about the matter. Some people are very comfortable living alone (or so they say). There's nothing wrong with either each you chose as long as you are completely perfectly happy.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
it really depends on the person..some are happy being single while most of us prefer to be married and have a family. I want to be married too, someday. But I'm not really closing my door to single blessedness..let's just wait and see what the future has in store for me.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
25 Nov 10
My boyfriend and I have been married once before. We live together now for four years and we never talk about marriage. I find that how we live together works for us. Although considered single we are committed to one another, we just never speak about marriage and I suppose that works well for both of us.
@fanzejian (372)
• China
25 Nov 10
life style between being single and being married depends on the feeling that your heart could tell you clearly. you feel very comfortable if you are keeping single ,otherwise ,you must be eager to find a partner and want to be married ,ending the terrible single life .so what do you think of ?
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
It depends,being single is very nice while you are still young, but you have to think again once your reaching age 35 above, for one , having a spouse is also good and having children is very fulfilling, so it really depends from person to person.
@undeadhobo (81)
• Mexico
25 Nov 10
Depends on how you feel. Think about what would make you happy and if there is someobe you'd like to spend your life with.