How you define BEING SUCCESSFUL?

November 24, 2010 10:31pm CST
Being successful for me is just being contented on what you have right now. We all have our own dreams and goals in life. For me in helping people with their health (lose weight, gain weight, to improve their health. Something that i made a difference in people live and changes. But can you tell me how near is you right now? To be successful you have to be: -good looking -have your own house, car and so on. -one of the top executive of the company -earning a lot -do lots of travel -have all gadgets And what more? Not really all about material things.
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@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
For me, being successful is being contented and happy with what you have. You can be rich in material things, but still could not feel successful because you are not contented with what you have. It's also when you feel good about yourself, like what you've said. You know that you make a difference in a person's life, so you feel happy with it, because by helping them, you made yourself feel good. Based on your checklist though, here's how I check out. I don't know if I'm good looking, but I'm not hideously deformed or scarred. I work as a front liner so I guess I have pretty enough face. I don't have my own house, I live with my parents in a house that they own. I don't have my own car, but I drive my own car. I share it with my brothers technically since our uncle and aunt gave it to the three of us, but I'm the one who mostly drives it. I'm way at the bottom of my company, one of the rank and file employees that can be pretty much disposable. I earn enough for me most of the time. I travel at least once a year to the US, but that's because as an airline employee, I have travel benefits. I have all the gadgets that I need, but still I want to have more. Despite of all the things that I have, I don't really feel successful. I'm thankful and happy with them, but somehow I want more.
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Yes, everyone has their purpose in life. We all make our own destinies, and no two destinies in this world is alike. I know. It's because as humans, we are never satisfied. I guess it's human nature to always want more. We always think that there's always something better out there and we always strive to get it. That's why I think people who get contented with what they have are lucky because they are very happy. Most people has the 'grass is greener on the other side' complex. Well, I think if that's really your dream then you should go for it. Me, I just kind of stumbled upon it. I didn't really want to do it when I graduated, but I decided to do it anyway. Now, I have been doing it for more than three years. I'm actually getting scared that I'm getting too comfortable with this job that I don't wanna leave. But I know that this isn't what I wanna do with my life. See, no satisfaction, right?
4 Dec 10
It's a long long journey. So each time i woke up in the morning i feel like happy because God still with me and giving me a chance to help others people's lives and God gave me an opportunity to live longer. May i know what is your degree? It is really connected in in your right now? Its fine to see yourself working in good company for many many years as long as your enjoying and love your job. As long as you manage your time and family. Well, your so lucky to have that job. Being part of airline is one of my dream.
2 Dec 10
Not really happy and satisfied on what i have right now. But contented of this is what gave to me. I need to accept that fact that everyone has not have the same story and purpose in this life. Have you notice that even i think your successful now, you dont feel it as well. And i noticed that every people are not contented and happy on what they are and what they had. Its all about Marketing because of new gadgets, new things in this life marketers are just making a problem. So funny but true. They made a difference in terms on how we decide things. So happy that you're a front liner in a airline company. That is one of my dreams that i think i am now very frustrated.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
22 Jan 11
Being happy, basically. And that might mean different things for different people, so it really depends on the person. I would be happy if I was financially secure, had a lot of free time and had a great family. But that's just me...
23 Jan 11
Family is the greatest thing in this world. Everything would be perfect if we have them. Nothings to compare. But still we need to work and have a money to enjoy life. I can say that everything revolves in money. Its just how we take good care of it and manage our money as well. And sometimes having a simple life is much better than being rich. Its up to us on what Class we want to be in. Good day! God bless!
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hi, you're right! Being successful doesn't really mean about material things! It's about being contented about things. Like now, I lost a lot of weight and I already have my desired weight. I call it success. It's about being happy and satisfied about what you have achieved.
7 Dec 10
I want to congratulate you for achieving you ideal weight. But may i know what procedure did you use to loose weight? I also had a business which is the Herbalife that we've been using for 12 years. No need to exercise, No skin sagging and We can eat what we want. Check my website: http://www.perfectdiet.multiply.com You did a good job.
• United States
25 Nov 10
Actually I am not sure your list at the end has anything at all to do with being successful. If you are happy with yourself and the way you live this life every day.. that's success. That has nothing to do with what you have and whether you are rich or poor, just doing the best with what you've got and treating yourself and others properly.
26 Nov 10
Yeah. I heard some opinion about being successful and that's what i noticed. Skills is really a need and not just a talent. But not all people succeed by just using their skills but their talents too. Just like other artist. Still depend on how my used it. How to take advantage on what aspect is the best for each one of us.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
4 Dec 10
Being successful is to be happy on the road that life takes you. We can't choose where and how we will fail or succeed. All we can do is try to make the most of what we have,. If this makes us happy, then we are successful.
7 Dec 10
To be successful we have to invest ourselves in giving, doing our best in action. Not only verbal. Of course everyone dream to be successful and we have to undergo different challenges in life. Like being rich, we have to work hard just to deal with it. Lots of time and efforts. It is not a one time blink of an eye. It takes many years to go. And sometimes we already satisfied in our life but God still gave us so many blessings. And the other side is that not all of us are destined to be successful. Even we work hard there's unending trials. So whatever it takes we have to be ready and accept this facts that everything has good purpose. Good day!
@dancelle (32)
26 Nov 10
I do believe in what you have said that health is wealth. I know so many people working so hard just to earn a living and to attain such a succesful thing in a blast but end up to a very serious sickness. You can attain the success you want if you also take care of your body, diet and rest do count. And in a process, I also learned how to be a health conscious person.
27 Nov 10
This time as early as i can. I try to be healthy and conscious on what i am eating. In nutrition its all about the food we are eating. And some Doctors really dont know about it but only based on the medicine. Its fine for me if i earn not that much money and keep myself healthy. Of course, if you have lots of money you can buy what you want and really dont care if its healthy or not.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
Being successful for me too is being contented and happy- having everything i need. i am not successful yet since i haven't finished school. but one day I know I can be successful if I just work hard without stepping on people.
25 Nov 10
Being successful you really not hard working just to achieve it. Some they are just so lucky and meant to be successful. Like being intelligent and be recognize in your company. Have a big commission in accidentally close the deal. It is really depend on our destiny. But we are the one who is controlling what would gonna happen to us.