why are some people so bad?

Don't look at it as something bad, look at it in a positive way because u learned something from them. Learning via the hard way is not something bad either because that leaves a stronger impression within u, making u understand the situation better, so that u know how to handle it in the future. If u want to be happy in this world, u have to learn how to look at things in a different angle.

hello raynejasper! people are very different from each other. Some are good, there are bad and there are in-betweens. There are people who are seemingly good but when their interest is at stake, they tend to do the bad things. When a person hurt you by their actions or words, you give them power over you. They can only hurt you with words as much as you will let them.

I think it is a byproduct on how they were nurtured when they were young, they probably got that around their environment as well. If people are mean to you, simply thank God that you are not the one being mean to your neighbours. Bad people wont have good friends who can stand by them; hence you are lucky that you aint one of them. I have heard of a tale about a very nasty employee who is hated by all of her officemates. If they had the chance to put ants on her coffee, they would just to get back to her. Mean people can be an object of discussion in the workplace; just imagine... being famous just because you have a bad attitude. Many times though, i would also empathize with them because ... how could they be so cruel? These people would forever be unloved.

Ranting about life, aren't we? D'you know that there are far more important things than getting hurt emotionally? What happened to you exactly?

Well you feel good when you do good :P Well they feel good when they do bad :) And good and bad is a view point but still you can overall say people add in bad : hurting and other actions that make the others feel bad and ruin them . Well and they are right , i think people that live to harm have a meaningless existence , but the problem is not that , the problem is they prove their uselessness by hurting others , physic or mental does not matter . Ok i don't quite get why i typed but i think its right :D

Human being have this bend to do bad thing. It's not just some people, but all of this have this bend. Some have more bend/inclination because they are not raised well, others have less of this. However, we all have. It's inborn. Therefore, raising children is important.