No joke...Woman are very strange

@xxj3ffxx (501)
Australia
November 25, 2010 5:40am CST
I have a story to tell... When i just came to australia, i met a girl that i like very much, she is funny and talkative ( which is good for me as sometimes i feel awkward when there is no conversation) anyways, we went out on our first date. It went pretty well and i somehow confess to her that i like her.. well she didnt reply me as a yes or a no... she said she will think about it. Anyways.. few days later.. amazingly she actually started to come and chill at my house. Practically every week you can see her at my house.. well.. we got pretty well close until she suddenly stopped... Eventually it was weird and i asked her what happen.. she told me that her housemate told her "Dont get too close to Jeff" well. i understood what she meant by this cause am very new here and we havent known each other well. Anyways.. she started to avoid me.. and now we barely see each other.. why do girls listen to other people?? cant they think for themselves? why cant she try to know me better?
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
25 Nov 10
That is what is called "filling the ears" at our place. One would tell something in the ears, and next, the person would start thinking about what they were doing and try to avoid you. I think you should give her some more time, and space to make her realize what she was doing, and if she felt guilty she would tell you. This thing also depends on what other people think about you.
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
25 Nov 10
Yes. you are right! she even ask me to give me some time and spaces. And sometimes its very strange that she told me that i annoy her when i ask her like "How was your day?"... Thats so strange! wonder what i did wrong
@voldrox (7191)
• India
25 Nov 10
She must be a very sensitive girl.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
25 Nov 10
or very stupid :P
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
25 Nov 10
First everything that apply to woman can apply to man too ;) Well its strange there are people like that , they dont listen to their mind or heart , they listen what people think , in a way is good you are getting off her now if she does this all the time its no good :)
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
25 Nov 10
yea... sometimes people think of their reputation and they believe that people say is what they are really what they are
@rinfour (250)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
Well, there are times when a girl has to listen to her friends. But she ultimately has to make the decision for herself. Perhaps she found that you were incompatible with each other and that's why she's keeping away. And her saying that she's staying away from you is because of what her friend said was just an excuse so that she wouldn't have to say the real reason? Anyway, it's better if you just forget about her and find a girl who is not as confusing as her.