Ignored A Phone Call
By Toni
@toniganzon (72281)
Philippines
November 25, 2010 8:31pm CST
Just a few minutes ago my phone rang and I saw my friend's name and just ignored it. Why? She's also a friend of my sister (the sister I had a rift with for getting pregnant with a married man) and I was thinking that she may want to talk to me about my sister. My sister will give birth this month and I'm thinking that our friend called me to inform me that she might be in the hospital now and I don't want to know. I really don't want to care about my sister anymore as long as she's with that man, and although it hurts me to lose her, I have too much pain and hatred in my heart to accept that man in the family!
5 responses
@preppydezza (309)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
What if the reason she called is for something different? There are many ways why people call you. But if your instincts were correct, that the issue is about your sister, and its one of the important things about her? Would you rather ignore it? In my opinion, even if you hate the guy she is with, she is still your sister. The sister who had great memories with you. The sister you dearly loved. Its just unfortunate that she fell in love with a wrong person. God had forgiven us for the mistakes we've made, are you not willing to forgive her and in return forsake her?
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
The problem is how can you forgive somebody who never admitted they've committed the mistake. The last time we had an argument she said she did not do anything wrong. Well if she sees herself in prison then, that would make her realize her fault.
I got sick for several weeks just worrying about her and she never cared about that because she cares only for that scumbag!
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
26 Nov 10
Hi,
It is kinda hurt to ignore our own sibling. If I were you, no matter
how I hurt my own sister,but I will still care about her.
Since your sister is going to deliver soon,then you should go and visit
her. It is kinda a respect. In the first place, you hate that guy because he
is a married man)?
Since your sister determined to be that guy,and she is pregnant with their kid,then you have to accept the fact.
As long as your sister is happy with her current life ,then it is not really
a big issue.
Let's have a good chat with your sister and also that man.try to understand them.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
Easy to say but difficult to do. All the family members abhor him and I can't be an exception. What they're doing is a crime and if my sister ends up in jail who's fault is it? If her license will be cancelled, who's gonna suffer? Not only her since we have the same family name and live in the same home town where everybody knew who we are and what we are. The shame is not only on her part but ours too.
@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Nov 10
Hi toni...
Do you need some advice here? if you, then i want to say that you should be with your sister at that moment and just be blind about what she has done. I am pretty sure you will not able to resist yourself if something happens negative.
If don't wish to receive this advice then just ignore it. Take care.
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
26 Nov 10
Well.. things which are done is now in the past, just ignore the way things are and accept the things that are now. Accepting a new member in the family is hard but it will make peace in your mind and in yourself. Finally it will make your life easier. believe me!
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
How can I accept a married man in the family? And not only that, he's a scumbag!
@fayetisha (15)
•
26 Nov 10
your sister and the baby needs you right now. just ignore that married man.
