Have you ever think of coming back to your first love...?

No, I never think about going back to my first love. We were together for a long time too, longer than four year, but they were not all happy years. I would not give up my life and life's lessons to go back to what I know will be a miserable life with my ex-partner. sometimes nature gives us a gift when a relationship goes bad and you breakup. We have the opportunity to find the true person that we are suppose to be with, but we have to let go of the old and let the new come in. As long as we focus on what we had and not what we can have, we will be unhappy. If you have been separated from your love for sometime, they may have moved on with another, so you should find out what has happened in her life. Maybe she is waiting or maybe you have wasted your thoughts on something that can never happen,you two getting back together.

Hey xxj3ffxx, This story isn't about my first love. This is about my 3rd love who is my 1st true love. The other two were just silly guys. I was immature at that time. So my True Love named "blah2x" left me a month ago. We had an on and off relationship, but we know that we really love each other. But last month, I think he gave up. He wanted to forget about me and try other girls. So I just wasted 2years with him. Too bad.

Its very hard to know if you're in love or just merely infatuated with someone. I had my first crush when I was 6, but that all ended in heartbreak when my parents decided to move away :P As for being in love, I do believe I am now, and do believe this is the only time I have been. I've been in a strong relationship for over 7 years, which has strengthened over time, even through some really tough experiences. I'm very sure that we're going to spend the rest of our lives together, so I am very lucky as I have nothing I would ever need or want to go back to.

As far as I am concerned, I have thought about the my first love. But after I thought it for the second, I think it is impossible for me to let the first love come back. As we have known that we loved each other at that time, and in the end, we harmed each other later. In this case, we may try to be the lover.So I think it can be a better choice to not let the first love come back.

i was with my first love for five years, it has also been hard breaking up with him because i still love him then. i just need to move away because i'm in too much pain already. It's because of his ex and family, and i can't see him standing for me that's why i let go. Many times i thought of coming back to him even after two years of not seeing i still think of what might have been. Though i wont forget him, i have already moved on and had found someone who'd fix my broken pieces. i'm glad i chose this path.

thinking yes but "coming back" is another story. i think, you'll only grow in the field of love when you know how to accept things & learn how to let go. there is more to life than living in the past! it's not easy of course especially with the kind of love you sacrificed & shared. but look at the light along the way to move on! know that in every heartbreak will lead you closer... to the one. (:

Hi xxj3ffxx. Nice story but made me recall someone past. I'll just put it this way. She was in a relationship for couple of years actually I think 8 years? The guy is younger than her. I don't know if some people are against their relationship. But for some reason it did not work. He got married and when they see each other in some gathering, he keeps on telling their friends that he is contented and happy with his life. But after couple of years, he confided to me that his marriage is a big mistake. I don't know why he had to tell that, but he admit that he still thinking of how their life would be if he only chosed her. Until now, I can say that they are the very best friends, but I don't know what's behind their very good friends relationship, but I can't see anything wrong their doing. I just probably understand them.

Going back to a first love would be repeating the past. I'm not sure that is something i would want to do. I would much rather move ahead to the future and see what love may hold for me there.

... well now i do think it :P Well my first love story was prity simple i was 16 or 17 damn i dont even remember . The problem was i did not know what to expect and what to do . Well it was painful it was my first love and ye i remember her from time to time , we are still friendly and i hear her every now and then . Well i don't really think i will come back with her , there are things that she need to change and first thats hardly possible . And second i don't think it will be the same when i know she broke my heart . Our breaking up was cuz she lost interest mostly and that was it . There were other things too but mostly that . But we may never know what can happen :P Right ? :)

I haven't meet my beloved.But I think our love is simple as a song.No mystery beyond the present;no striving for the impossible;No shadow benhinds the charm; no groping in the depth of the dark.This love between us is simple as a song