How do you do if your colleague say that he loves you?

i think it`s normal.. whats the wrong?whats the wrongif you colleagues love you??

Well, it's not bad unless you both are single. But if you both are married and have responsibilities in life. I think that is not good... If your a married and your office mate is a single and said he fall in love with you. I think it's time for you to get away from him because it's not for you. It will ruin your married status if still want the guy to accompany in wherever you do... Be wise and love your man not other which out of your concept...

Ha, if I was you, I'll have a talk with him about that. By the way, I have received so many letters from you, do you really have so many questions, or just want to earn money by making so many topics?

How uncomfortable for you! I guess all you can do is try to avoid him as much as you can. Maybe you could get transfered to another department or something. It is better to tell him that you don't share his feelings, than pretending that you do, and end up hurting him. Even if you consider him a friend, close contact with him might not be good. He may take it as something else, unless you explain to him how you feel.

Try to tell him as nice as possible that you can't resonate with those feelings but you don't want to hurt him/her and that you'd like to try working together normally if possible. If not, then you have to think of a sollution. Either request to be moved, or change jobs. Present him/her those options and maybe things will cool down by themselves

Just be honest with him and tell him that you feel the same way to him. Better to clear it as soon as possible before things go wrong in the future. I mean,he might think that you feel the same to him,or if you don't tell how he is to you earlier then dump him later on,he might think that you're a player. There's nothing wrong with falling in love with your colleague,and it can't be avoided. It's just that you have to clear things as soon as you can to avoid undesirable things happen.

Be honest, but very gentle. Tell him you realize he (or she?) has feelings for you, but that it would ultimately be unkind of you to encourage them, as you two aren't a match. Tell the person you care too much to be dishonest, & encourage him/her to keep looking; that the right person will come along, & he/she mustn't mope & close him/herself off, but be open to it when it does happen. That's what I'd do. I know it will be a tad painful for both of you--honesty often is--but in the long run, honesty really is always the best policy. Maggiepie "Can the liberties of a nation be thought secure when we have removed their only firm basis, a conviction in the minds of the people that they are gifts from God?” ~ Thomas Jefferson

It is really an uncomfortable situation and to make myself comfortable at work I need to be honest with him in a way he won't feel bad too.! This situation usually happen if you go each other everyday! for friendship sake, I won't stay away from him but there's a wall between us now.! why is it a must to have lunch with him,? can I go anywhere with some of my friends?

This is an very uncomfortable situation. He love you but you don't love him. I think you must say to him the truth that you don't love him, you only consider him as normal college. You say that you respect him but we can't use force or in loving unilateral to get love. I think he will not mind when you say to him at first time. You maybe talk to him may time with sincerely. Hope you have a good life.