listen up woman and man i got questions i really need an answer...

thanks, I'm on a kind of situation where I need to find out if I'm over reacting about matters or not...or if I'm jumping onto conclusions of thinking the guy I'm with is getting close with someone through comforting..

Ah I see hmmm, that makes it all the more tricky, well, if they were friends before then maybe it's a normal thing for them, it's also not likely that the other girl will go there knowing you two are together The thing is though, that you shouldn't jump to conclusions either way as being suspicious and what not might distance you two as is Just leave it be for a while, see how things play out, person can't stay low forever, alternatively you could talk to him about the girl and see what problems she has, assuming she talks most to him, and see if you can't both comfort her, if he doesn't have a problem then he most likely just wants to help her, if he dose, well, lie detector time!

hmmm, well i had the chance to talk with the girl but it ended up into a fight with her, she was actually claiming that she is a gf of his and bf was claiming she is lying..the thing is, I think the girl already fell for him, I knew she was on the first time I read her message asking him if he was happy whenever they text each other, I told him that it wont do both of them any good if he continue to comfort her since I think that the girl is having misinterpretations already but he never listened to me and guess what?! he even got mad at me for thinking that way. you see, I know exactly what the girl problem is, she got pregnant with a business man that she thought she just hit a jackpot from a sweepstake but wrong! the man also felt like she's after what he has that's why he didn't want to accept any responsibility on them...and I read on her message that she is admitting that she went to look for a big fish but failed to keep it.

guess I'm not that wrong to assume that they will eventually fall for each other one day if the comforting wont stop... is it like its the feeling of being at ease is the reason why you think you fell for her?

hmmm..here's another question, if by chance you were romantically involve with someone..is there any chance that you'll still feel like falling for her? and will you ever seek comfort to other woman if you were romantically involve?

Hey i am back with the answer to your 2nd question: well i don't think it was only that, it was also the fact that i was not romantically involved with anyone at the moment, and receiving so much attention in my hour of need and emotional sensitivity were all part of my falling for her.

tricky question with some kind of situation huh?! your response is truly appreciated I just need to ask this questions for my own reference..every response will sure help me figure things out on my relationship at present.

its not actually me its my bf who's been comforting another girl who got pregnant and was run off from....

thanks for the appreciation. One more thing is,if you simply fall in to a guy friend who is always there to comfort you,and have a relationship with him,what if the relationship doesn't work. Then,came another guy who will give a helping hand and a shoulder to cry on,would it mean that you will fall again?...(just try to control yourself and learn from each experiences and from the people around us either) Never mistaken a simple care for love,or else your guy friend will take advantage of the situation (that we never knew,be smart)

well then I'll give you another question, what if you have a gf but you never told friends or the girl your comforting that you have one..what does it means for you? does it mean are you into something with the other woman?

well I'm not falling for anyone nor was seeking comfort from a guy or what, its actually my bf comforting another girl whom he said he's "kumare" but found out that she is just a sister of he's kumare...the girl is pregnant to other guy now they've been seeking comfort from each other reason for me to do this discussion..

I envy you for having such wonderful marriage, I've been reading your discussions though I don't have enough time to respond.You two seems to understand each other on almost anything.. I'm now in this situation where my bf is comforting another woman on which that woman is not he's real friend, she just met her through friends of friends now their texting each other and bf wont stop comforting her. what makes me feel suspicious is that he never mention I'm existing in his life!

that's what I'm being afraid off...to let him go seek comfort from other woman and that to know later that he's been thinking about another woman and not me...