How do i introduce myself to a girl i like who is a complete stranger to me?
@legspinismylife2 (181)
India
November 26, 2010 6:13am CST
Every time i pass by this girl she looks i look and its over.I want to talk to her and take start but can't seem to find a way to talk.I can't simply say hi as we both dont know each other.I am bad at talking to girls whom i even know i feel shy and inferior,
Besides its not like a movie that i go bump into her and start talking to her.
So can anyone help me?
4 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
26 Nov 10
Quite easy my friend, firstly always remain being yourself, never try to be someone you are not, as this will be difficult to continue later if something comes out of the girl and you.
Start out by saying Good Morning, Afternoon and smile. She will naturally return the greeting gesture and each day continue the conversation with small talk. Once she realizes what a swell guy you are she may start viewing you as more than just a classmate.
She may not take a liking right away, but one day perhaps invite her to join you for some coffee and or tea. She may refuse so time and patience need to be on your side. If she agrees you may want to say if you can have perhaps her telephone number where maybe later you can talk and get to know each other more. Good luck to you legs, we all deserve love and we will not achieve it if we do not try.
@legspinismylife2 (181)
• India
27 Nov 10
the point is she is not my classmate she is from another school and so am i.So maybe i start with a smile and hi
@Fireheart (683)
• India
26 Nov 10
I think you should go for it, forget your ego and forget about yourself and dont think more just go to her and talk something, one think i learnt is that things dont happen if you dont go for it, and if you were to live enjoy it. why all these thoughts than move your body with your sub conscious, if you think too much about something that wont work, than just let it happen. you design your fate.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
26 Nov 10
U wont accomplish a thing if you keep on feeling shy or inferior!! just get up and do it..you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!! just create anything to start with! you guys do like each other, right! so? what r u waiting for? just do the second step! she might be impatiently waiting for ur step!! just do it and create any reason to talk about! anything that comes into ur mind!
@bnd8884 (98)
• India
26 Nov 10
hi buddy, trust me there is no tution classes for how to talk to girl, if you think that she smiles at you than you should start greeting her with hello or hi everyday. first start with this dont try to speed up after this start talking more with her one day you will be having a cup of coffer with her in a nice place. best of luck.