No closure?

Hi there wiwa! First of all i don't believe in making so much effort just to make sure both parties are aware of the closure. Not at all times we need to do this personally. Well that is just for my own opinion. But i also see the point of others why they wanted to have a closure. We all have our own way of thinking and for me that's what makes us think in different ways including when we happened to be on a broken hearted situation. Some prefer to have a closure but some prefer to moved on and forget everything for good. Of course we all need a closure but there are so many situations that should be depending on, like sometimes both party doesn't participate in getting a closure so why put up more effort when you see your old partner never bother to talk about it? It becomes non-sense right? But sometimes both parties agreed and participated well on giving each of them the closure to moved on. Sometimes we just have to accept things on how they come to us. If separation comes with a good closure then good but if not then no time to waste just moved on. We don't need to make our life miserable just because of that. Just think about the time we would be wasting of thinking about that closure when we can actually moved on without that and have a happier life. Still that is just my opinion, everybody got their own way of thinking.

In every moment I think it's better for me to move on without reconciliation. I feel like I did all that I can at the end and nothing helped. But there is still a lot feelings lingering around and I think that is because I haven't found closure with myself.

I always see to it that I would have proper closures because I want to draw clear lines. It's good to have limitations and borders at times and sometimes it makes me able to move on easily when I know that what I have in the past have been really closed and totally zeroed out. And that there would be no turning back for me. For me, I like it, when it's properly closed. :D