is your father hates you?

I do not believe he hates you, I think he truly loves you. Although sometimes as a parent we are blunt with our children we forget that we can hurt them with our words. I would say give it a little time and perhaps explain why you felt you had to help. It may not help as he may feel he knows what is best for you, so I would suggest you understand he does care about you. As for your mind affecting your job duties take it easy as you need your job. Try really hard to disway your mind off the situation while at work. Keep busy as you do not want other at your place of work to know what is going on.

hi, In my opinion father can be angry with you, but he never hates you. Father will be angry, if he is worried about his son/daughter whom he feels they are traveling in a wrong track. My advice is try to speak to your father and don't get panic if he is angry with you. If you think what you are doing is right, try explaining him. If you are not sure about what you are doing listen, then to him because he always thinks of your life. Happy Living Calpro (A father of 4 year old son)

Dear friend, Many times my father has scolded me, beaten me, harassed me and so on. But all because I knew he wanted me to seen a good way. May be he do not how to deal things in proper way, still wanted his son to be good boy or not to do wrong things. I hope your father cares of you, may he is afraid to see his daughter getting in troubles. Hope and wish soon to recover from those unhealthy judgment on your father. May be your are lucky to get a father like that who cares his daughter. Hope your father has not beaten you without any reasons, not a drunken fellow, never abused you hope he will not. Wish you all the wellness....

Hi asliah welcome to mylot My father is no more, for he was the sweetest person on the earth, he gave me the best possible care, love and affection, plus the highest possible education, i am obliged to him.. i can never think of hating him You should try to keep your head cool, try to avoid arguments with him, i am sure things will cool down lol.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . God bless you. Welcome always.

In your case I don't think your father hates you, but on the contrary he is angree on you since you are doing the wrong thing (as he think) since you are helping your ex-lover as you have no relationship with him now

In this case, i dont think that he hates you. Father never hates his children, i think, as my father always love me. But sometimes life has problems so that we get our shares. Explain to your father and let him know how do you feel, and dont forget to ask how does he feel. Then i think you can come to understand each other. Good luck.

ha! ha! ha! You should help yourself before you help other. A good lady will not simply accept an offer from a guy. Just keep in mind, buddy. If I am your father, I shall angry with you too. Since the thing is over, just promise your father for not repeating the same mistake again. Your father will forever be your father. Your girlfriend will not necessary be your girlfriend or your wife later. Trust your closest person, your father.