1 ... 2 ... and 3, it's OVER!

for me, i dont know how many chances i could give, maybe it depends upon the mistakes they did to me. anyone should forgive anyone and dont keep bad feelings for others. its nice to live your life without anger in your heart.

I do not have a number scheme per say, as I truly basis the circumstances as they come. What I mean is that a person can truly be so horrid that one chance is all they get. However, there have been circumstances that I give the benefit of the doubt but I think two is more then enough. I know people can change but I do not wish to be the exemplary of their events. I am one to ex out all negativity in my life and well people making countless mistakes against me have no room in my life.

In most cases I probably give one chance. Because once I've had it out with you it's hard for me to talk about things and make amends. Others I give endless chances to because they always come back to me. Both are bad. I need to work on my communication skills and become more straightforward about my thoughts and beliefs.

I don't decide how many should I give a person. It depends on the person and the wrong he/she had done, usually it's "she". I guess it's because in the past I've been heart broken several times. Beautiful girls are real heart breakers. They do that while saying WE GUYS are the heart breakers. In fact, I'm sure that playboys always had that one bitter past caused by a girl that made him change in to a lying womanizer. I wouldn't mind being called one though cuz it's true, I love girls and I've cheated before but it's because of that one girl that broke my heart. Going back to the topic, yeah, I don't count the number of times I'll forgive the person. It depends.

Well that sort of depends on what they do to me. I mean if it is something simple like not keeping a silly secret than I will forgive them but if it is something really serious then no I don't give any chances at all. With me it is one strike and you are out but only for big things I mean simple things don't really matter. To me it would have to be something big like them cheating with my boyfriend or something for me to not forgive them. As far as little lies here and there or something like repeating what I said to them in confidence I would forgive them and give them chances. Now if they keep doing it and the secret is a bit more valuable then they would have to learn or get out in my opinion.

Hi dear, As per my nature, I will think of it that I will not make more attempts to continue with such people. But I cannot be like that and I cannot say how many more times I will pardon and run after them. In this case, I will not learn a lesson from my experience. Even some people reminded me about the same. Because I love people and for I forgive is more easy than cursing. Regards, Thank-s