Do you always add the people who add you as friend here in mylot?

@lady1993 (27224)
Philippines
November 27, 2010 5:26am CST
I o ,all the time. Every now and then new and old people from mylot add me as their friend and I approve them easily. I don't think there's nothing wrong since i don't really share to much personal information here. What about you? Do you add everyone who adds you?
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@washor (113)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
Yes I add everyone who adds me. I see no problem with that. I think every one here has the same purpose.. that is to earn money, share our thoughts, emotions and to gain friends.
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
yes, I agree with you. I think there is no harm in adding friends here unlike facebook. Although we still have to be careful and never share really personal information that may be used against us...
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@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 10
Hi, Yes..I do add some friends who request for my approval to add them as my friends. I don't see the point why I should rejected their offer to make friends. We are here to help each other earn more money. SOmemore as what you said, we don't share much on personal information,therefore, we are just friends for Mylot purposes.
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
But there are really some people who reject or ignore people who add them as their friends though.. I wonder why.. Yes, we're just here to help each other (purely mylots stuff and business)
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
27 Nov 10
I am not sure if I understand you question but I will give it a shot! You can only be friends on MYlot with someone if they request you or you request their friendship. I do not add everyone I get requests from! Some of the reasons are if the interests are very different then mine, the person is only looking for referrels or the person is rarely on Mylot. I look over people's profiles before I decide to add them or not!
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
Well, even if you did not fully understand my question- you did answer it. I don't bother to look into their profiles though- I just add them up, some are newbies and others are old mylot users like you..
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
28 Nov 10
Like you, I don't really share much personal information either, so I tend to add everyone. Most of people who add you in mylot never talk to you anyway, so no harm on adding a person who requests to be in my friends list. I wonder why do they call them friends list, as most of the people in those lists aren't your friends. Moreover, most of them are people you have never talked to
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@siliguri (4241)
• India
27 Nov 10
Not always because there are many mylotte who leave the mylot very early i focus to the number besides the mylotte if it is more than 100 and remain active in mylot then i add them. Previously i don't used this method i add everyone who add me as friend but not now. About female mylotte without a minute i add them...
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
So you don't add newbies?.....unless they are females Yes I think it's quite useless to add people who just leave- there are even some who just abandon the site even though their number is already 200...
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
If somebody new or old here in mylot asking my acceptance for his/her request be a friend is no problem at all, because me also do like that asking for approval be a friend vise versa. But some are just ignore request I don't know why? see you around
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
Well, people must have their reason for accepting and not accepting friend requests.. For me it's no problem at all- although I do wonder who they are sometimes and I don't really hear much from them after adding them as friends.
@marguicha (223020)
• Chile
27 Nov 10
I used to accept everyone. Now I check the profile to see how many posts they have and what kind of posts they make or answered. I got tired of getting spams so it´s better not to acceept people who only come to tell you to join then as their referral. I do trade sites with my friends, but that´s something else.
@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
Yes I do. I only have a few friends here in myLot so I kind of want to be friends with others too. People here in myLot are all nice people (in my opinion) so I really don't mind adding people I don't know.
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@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
28 Nov 10
I also add people on mylot really easily I see nothing wrong with that I think it's good to have lots of friends on mylot. Theirs nothing wrong with it at all it's a good thing everybodys wants to have lots of friends the more the merrier is the saying now a days.
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• United States
28 Nov 10
I do not turn anyone away at all as I remember being a newbie once myself. I do not request friends as I get so many requests daily and well, I figure if they find my comments interesting they will add me. Another reason for not requesting is that I find too many members being a bit too picky when it comes to who they add. I have well over 1400 friends and while most post quality content that makes me happy. I have never had any problems with members on my friend list either as most are respectful and that make me happy also.
• United States
27 Nov 10
I usually add people who friend request but I always turn the email alert off.
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@Cargoleta (723)
• Spain
27 Nov 10
I always accept all friend requests here on myLot. I'm not really sharing personal information here so I'm not worried about strangers knowing about things I may consider private, and I figure that if someone adds me as a friend they maybe want to see what discussions I create, or may create interesting discussions themselves, so it's a nice opportunity to get to know other people. Take care!
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@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
As of today, yes I do add friends who invites me here in mylot even if I don't personally know the person. Hahaha. It's because I do not have friends here whom I personally know. And besides, I guess there's nothing wrong with adding friends you don't personally wrong here. It might as well another way to make friends, so why not.
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
i will definitely do, because this my first day and it's a success to have a new friend in mylot too. i don't even know how to add one yet...so pls be the first. jejeje
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@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
28 Nov 10
hi lady, till now i have not rejected any friends friendship request in any one of my sites,every time i am accepting friendhship,but i could not say how far she/he will be my friend in the mylot,now i have more than 500 friends in mylot,regularly i am getting friendship requests,have a nice day
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
4 Dec 10
hi lady, thanks for the response,some friends become very close me,that i think,but when ever i require something they are hiding their faces,but recently one friend from India,when i asked her for alertpay dollars against paypal dollars,she have send her alertpay dollars to me and i have transffered my paypal dollars to her,so i can trust her,have a nice day
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Wow..500- that is a lot.. Do you know anything about any of them? Like a real friend in mylot?
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
in my case i also add those people who add me in mylot. but it would be different thing in my facebook account. in my facebook account, i really check if i know the person who is adding me up.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Yes, all of us should really be careful when it comes to facebook. Since there is not much privacy there- adding friends easily can be very dangerous.. But here in mylot is not.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
27 Nov 10
So far I have added everyone that added me. I see no harm in it since most people here on MyLot are really nice, so why wouldn't I want to be their friend, you know?
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@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
27 Nov 10
I have friendships waiting in line , i think its early for them to add me as friend , now they will need more of a proof that they can be my friends ;) Someone add me cuz they like one of my posts and i was like : who are you man ? In time if we get to chat and have similar opinions and viewpoints i think i will add them :)
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• Mexico
27 Nov 10
No one has added me really, so I don't know,I guess I'd check if said person commented or answered to something I posted,otherwise it'd be akward.. I read you must have tons of friends here,I got none yet.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
I experienced that when I was just starting too- I think people add me because they saw my name/picture whenever I post a discussion or answer one... You should do that more often too. New people will add you as a friend almost every day.
@allogra (21)
• Romania
28 Nov 10
yes , why not ..what seems to be the problem...it' s a social site where you can meet a lot of people share opinions and nobody knows who you really are..where are you from..;) ..
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Yes, that's the good thing about it here- we meet new people and learn from them without them even knowing the real us.. We can even earn money and help others earn money too. I'm from Philippines by the way..