Forgotten friends request
By justinus
@justinus (1104)
Karawaci, Indonesia
November 27, 2010 5:55pm CST
I have forgotten friend request around 50 and several of them was posted 4 YEARS AGO ! I am very sorry of that, of course it was not my intention to refuse or deny but merely becaused I forgot or at least I didn't pay much attention to mylot, again I am very sorry to you my friends especially to whom that I have been "neglected" your friend's requisition !
see although I was already 4 years at mylot, I posted only around 500 ...hahahaha... Today I got e-mail from mylot administrator about new friend request then I browse my profile and very, very much surprised that there was much pending friend request I didn't aware !! even several of them was psoted 4 years ago ! please don't think that I am so arrogant or boastfull, no, not like that actually (what do you think about it my friend / myloters's ?) I wish by this post I can eliminate any negative thought.
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5 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
28 Nov 10
I have seen some discussions from members here who say that they recently noticed they had pending awaiting that members like yourself do not tend to. I immediately assumed that what these members were speaking of was that the member who they requested simply was not active any longer.
So while you are going through the requests you may want to check if they are even around anymore and or if they truly want you to accept as making them await 4 years they may longer remember you and or feel a bit insulted as well. So perhaps if you accept my suggestion would be to send a pm and let them know you were busy and apologize at the same time. Would be my best suggestion as well, as maybe they will remove it later as they will feel you will not be active again.
Good luck to you though, and re-welcome back you to myLot.
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@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
29 Nov 10
That is okay, life happens!! I have been on MyLot off and on for 2 years. I just recently got back on here (about 3 months ago) and I have faithfully been on just about every day. However, sometimes I get caught up with family things and other obligations so it is hard for me to keep up on here. Glad to see you back on MyLot!!
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@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
29 Nov 10
Thanks. You sent much more comment compared to me, I sometimes feel that it need much energy to read and write and make me a little bit lazy. I have tried make 25 posts respectively at the same day but I can not continue ; ok we can here if we have time and need to chat only, I think it doen't matter. see you and have a nice day.
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@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
28 Nov 10
yeah, thank for your understanding. my mind, my hand and time was fully occupied by my daily needs, how to make real money to survive even when my age is getting older already ....hahaha... (sometimes I thought that Adam's sin thrown to me into this kind of 'hell'...but it is not fair enough while according christian faith, although Christ has already redeem our sin we still bear our cross untill our resurection, later at the here after or faster while still live in this earth - sorry I just want make longer comment)
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
I don't think they'll be angry. There are a lot here who just wanna gain friends. Besides, people here are nice. There's a big chance they'll forgive you for it.
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@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
28 Nov 10
I hope so, thanks for your comment. Hey I saw you came from Phillipine, I alwasy tell to someone who come from your country, I visite manila 3 years ago, stay at Pedro Ghill street I love very much your very cruncy meal called as SQUIT made from octopuss or salamander fried and sold along Pedro ghill, I miss them now !
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