Do you worry about the outcome of your actions?
By WinglessAri
@WinglessAri (37)
United States
November 28, 2010 2:11am CST
The title says it all. Do you worry that when you choose one thing, you hurt someone else? or that you got hurt because of someones decision?
I cant say a worry all that much in the past, but of late it seems every day I worry I will say something wrong, or do something wrong. It is tearing me up inside knowing that I could hurt someone I love so much, and I dont even mean to.
I realize thats life. There are the hard times and the easy times.
I just want to know if there are more like me? and how do you deal with it?
- Mariel M.
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2 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
When we get older we start to realize things like this. Things that, when we were still a kid, we didn't think is important or maybe thought they're important but just isn't too significant for us. I think about the consequences of my actions more often than not. I know it's important to realize that but sometimes I just do whatever. I guess it's because of our lack of time that's why we have to rush other things and sometimes even decisions.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
28 Nov 10
Hi WinglessAri!
I face this a lot at work almost everyday. With friends of conflicting interests one choice of decision would normally hurt other friends too. It's difficult to resolve actually. The next best thing is to talk to all concerned in order to get a compromise for the good of many and for the good of the enterprise.
