Is there one time you feel that you dont love your bf/gf?
By marybeauty
@marybeauty (73)
Philippines
7 responses
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
hi there, my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years and a half now, and there was never a time that that thought entered my mind or just told myself that i do not love my boyfriend anymore. in my own opinion, if ever one has felt like this, i do not think that there is enough love for each other. for me i can not see myself (and do not even want to think about it) with someone else. but if ever love like ours do not last longer, at least you tried your best and made him feel so loved and special, he/she will never forget you. and there will be no regrets like i should have been more sweet and loving to him/her, i should have done better, i should have tried, done this and that and things like that.
@pepinho (117)
• Slovak Republic
1 Dec 10
Scientists say that love is chemical process which lasts 3 years. I think that in every relationship are moments when you have doubts if you still love your bf/gf but if it is not strong feeling I think it is OK. And there are lots of factors which can cause this feeling from often argues to the moment when you will meet somebody who seems to be better for you although you are still in relationship with your bf or gf. I had this feeling sometimes but I still know that I love my girlfriend and she is my only woman. So if you feel like you dont love your partner think about it deeply and you will find out if its just a feeling or you will end your relationship.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
1 Dec 10
We don't always agree and get along with our significant others. We are only human after all. When you don't feel that connection with your partner, it seems like the end of the world. it will probably happen more than once, You just have to grin and bear it.
@fathom01 (171)
• Canada
1 Dec 10
I have been with my girl friend for 5 years now. I must admit that feelings like that do arise from time to time, the best thing to do I find is to confront your partner and see if they feel the same. Every time I did that, I realized how much I loved her and those feelings went away, some times you just need some re-assurance that you are both on the same page. If you don't discuss this with your significant other, it will cause problems to your relationship in the future. By the way, most of the time these feelings arise, it was because of our work schedules or when we started seeing each other less, we managed to work around that and we are still going at it. 5 years strong :) Good luck with your relationship.
@cryox92 (168)
• Macedonia
1 Dec 10
I've been through this a couple of times. I must say, it was not the most pleasant period of our relationship but we did get over it and our relationship got stronger. In those moments you just have to remind yourself of the things which brought you two together at the first place.
@bleddyn (9)
• United States
28 Nov 10
there comes a point in every relationship where you find that you no longer love your significant other thats why relationships end or they change and the love turns into something more something stronger where the little thigs no longer matter and you want to be with that person beyond forever