There are things better left unsaid, would you agree?

I guess for me it would depend on the subject of what was being said. I mean if someone is cheating and I need to know about it by all means tell me so I can get out. Other than that if it is just a silly spat and we have worked it out then let by gones be by gones I say. Also sharing too much about your past is also a kind of say nothing at all type of deal. I would really rather not know what someone did in their past as long as it does not come out in the present.

The more it is not said, the more likely it is asked. But if it is going to disgrace or stress someone a lot or something quite unexplained and mysterious I agree that it should better be left unsaid and forgotten.

I agree too, that somethings are better left unsaid. Because sometimes talking more will lead to more conflict or problems and of course it is better left unsaid if its very obvious. But there are also things that should be let go in the open, to prevent people thinking about it and being confused.

Keeping your self helpful and happy is oftentimes keeping your mouth shut and a lot of nodding to do. Giving advices is where the common pitfall for all of us concern; we tend to add things unnecessary because the one asking for advice already had an idea of what she/he wants.

If I hurt someone by telling him , I would prefer keeping it to myself. No matter if they call me a cheater, unhonest or whatever.I don't like hurting people , so i agree with your thesis.