Do you tend to avoid certain types of people

@joystick (1675)
November 28, 2010 2:48pm CST
I am a person that will never think good or bad of people, but what if you discover that all they do is stab others in the back, cause trouble between people or tell people how to upset other peoples lives.Well those types of people i am too busy for, as when the trouble starts they say that they are nothing to do with it or that they do not want to get involved, yet they are the ones that started it.Stay away, that way they do not drag you into things.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
29 Nov 10
I can't stand and tend to avoid those who are drama seekers....yup...come in late, have to be the center of attention at all costs....like doing the drama thing. I hate that!
@joystick (1675)
29 Nov 10
I know what you mean.That and those other people that lie to get noticed, thinking that if they say the right thing about someone then even though they are the back stabbers they seem to get a great reaction.
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
yes, because i don't like quarrel with those people. I can't trust them.
@joystick (1675)
28 Nov 10
In time, you know who to trust, as well as who not to trust.
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
28 Nov 10
I di try to avoid people who raise my anxiety level. I do this because i like peace and I am very sensitive so things that are said and done to hurt me or others tend to stick with me a lot longer than most people.
@joystick (1675)
28 Nov 10
I am like you i like a peaceful life, also do not like to see people being treated wrongly by people that they class as friends.There are alot of people that know what certain people are like and then they moan about what a person has said or done only to let them do the same all over again.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
28 Nov 10
I have known people like this and I tend to end up staying away from them. I don't have time in my life to deal with the drama that people like this create. I knew one girl who was supposely a friend of my youngest daughter. I didn't like her from day one. She always craved attention and wanted to be the center of attention in any type of gathering. Well she ended up moving in with my oldest daughter to share expensives. I told my daughter you are making a big mistake. Sure enough 6 months later while my daugher was visiting me the girl packed up and left without saying a thing to my daughter. So my daughter couldn't afford the house by herself and had to move. I felt so bad for my daughter that she had to go through another move and also having to clean up the old house of the girls garbage and filth that she left behind.
@joystick (1675)
28 Nov 10
I am the same as you i tend to try to warn a person what another person is like, then it is up to them.This one person that is known for stirring up trouble as well as telling other people what they should do, will in the end come down with a nasty bump and i think they will take the other people down with them.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
28 Nov 10
For my own sanity, I think I just avoid many types of people. Most likely the people who want everything, expect everything, but when you ask them for a small favor, they are suddenly too busy, despite them guilt tripping you into doing something. Also chronic gossipers are some people I avoid. And people who just won't shut up. And people who are rude and have not even been taught basic manners. I am sure there are more but those are just some groups that popped up right off of the top of my head.
@joystick (1675)
28 Nov 10
I think that most of the time i manage to avoid people like that if i can get away with it.I also find myself looking for excuses to why i can not see them.I feel like sometimes telling certain people that they do not have to see these peoplethat they say that they can not stand, yet you know the next time you hear they are up their behinds.I think there are people that like to stir things up and then there are the people that let them get away with it and all is forgotten.
@pokumon (644)
• United States
28 Nov 10
I try to avoid people that I know have hurt other people with their words. I don't like mean spirited people who like to mouth out about their ex girlfriends. I think that is super low and intolerable. I can understanding ranting a little if you're drunk or just went through a tough break up but talking just because you hate women in general is not cool at all.
@joystick (1675)
28 Nov 10
I have seen in the past as well as heard that it is not just what people say, but it is the actions that other people make the person do that can cause alot of upset.I feel like we should avoid people that are like this, also warn others what these people are like, that way at least they are prepared.
• United States
28 Nov 10
Nope. Well not really but I think I do sometimes. I avoid people who stink unless I had to.
@joystick (1675)
28 Nov 10
They are the other types of people that i do not like,lol.
@Nadinest1 (2016)
• Canada
1 Dec 10
OMG! I am like you, joystick. I do know want this drama crap in my life. They are the ones who have the issues. We can't change other people. Just concentrate and keep your life happy....without these people in it.
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
29 Nov 10
My teacher always says dont blame anybody,If something goes wrong.It must be my fault. Our life indeed exist this types of people.But if we avoiding them,we will save a lot of time.so yes.
@hushi22 (4928)
29 Nov 10
to be honest i do. i dont like gossippers and people who love to mind other people's business esp early in the morning. i try to get rid from a lot of the villagers here because it's annoying when they ask where i am going and where i came from every time i pass by.
• United States
30 Nov 10
That's why I stay away from fools like that, back along time ago that happened to me. they say there your friend what they are are users, them fools will screw your man or girl, they are back stabbers. there phony two face ,no good there are a hold list of names for them, sometimes jealousy play a role like haters. lol
• Philippines
29 Nov 10
Hi! They say you can choose your friends but can't choose your relatives. Lol. What if your relative has attitude problem like this case. Well, If you know that their a bad case you either speak straight to them or just ignore them. There are more problems in this world than the problem them. 'am just sayin...
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
29 Nov 10
I begin to like you! :) But you shouldn't keep this for a long time. Don't you want to care your close friends?