do bad dreams affect your relation with your lover?

hello annawen! i dreamed once of my bf cheating on me with a girl he once tried to court, awhile we were already steadies. I told him about the dream and what it could probably mean. You know what happened? he got so grumpy and turn his back on me and said i'm making his day bad! all i did was narrate the dream to him! well, i lost my temper and started asking him is it because it struck a chord? that he is indeed cheating on me. Well, we had a temporary cold war but we soon made up. Actually, i was calm about it, just telling him about that dream since i read in a book of dreams that cheating by a partner in a dream, means you would share lasting love. It exactly means the opposite actually. My bf just misinterpreted me or maybe he thought i was accusing him or like that, that's why he got mad at me. So much for telling the truth, lol.

No, never dear. I don't do this stupid thing. It's only a dream. It's not the truth. I don't know why your boy friend grumpy with you? I am so sorry to hear that. You must talk it clearly to your boy friend, also comfort him!

I don't see any connection with relationship about bad dreams. There is idea how bad dreams affect relationship...I think there is no truth about that...

I always have that dream with my man.The scene is always he's with me and he flirts with the girl and end up leaving me wuth the girl. When I see him I told him about that movie and I punch him anywher just to get back. He was laughing all the way and making fun of me by asking if the girl is beautiful. I told him that he might really cheating on me but ofcourse he denied it and I can't find any reason to not believe him.He also dreamt the same but it doesn't change our relationship, it's only a dream so don't depend on your dreams.

Dreams are dreams. And will remain just a dream. Dream is different from reality. We don't have to get affected with it easily.

My boyfriend has had numerous dreams about me cheating on him... it actually hurts. I think dreaming is just a manifestation of the things you're fearful of or worried about in real life. He may be feeling insecure, and not good enough for you... so he thinks that you will cheat. Even subconsciously, he's thinking about that and therefore dreams about it. Of course, he's going to be upset. Just like you would be upset if you had a dream about him cheating. I think if it's an insecure relationship, then it could have a negative effect. Or it could have a positive effect, in that it makes you closer to them.

My bad dreams usually affect my lover in a positive way. A bad dream can give me another way to become closer to my partner. When my partner is there to comfort me from having a bad dream, it can bring something new to the relationship.

bad dreams never affect my relationship with my bf. i had a dream before that he cheated and i even saw the face of the girl that we both know. it as funny because i dreamt that after the day that his guy friend had a one night stand with the girl who was his (guy friend's) flatmate.

Sorry but your bf is so hollow and narrow minded, he don't know what is bad/good dreams. He is creating a ghost that he is only one fear. If yor bf is continuing such action what for if you and him together. He should need a heart to heart talk and try to explain that only dreams. Back to your question.... sorry. actually in related to my explanation it will affect only if the concern is narrow minded and not understand what is the meaning of dreams - in the bible dreams are the result of our many things in our mind... see you around... but I think he loves you very much that's why...

oh no ,In china there an old saying that dreams are alway opposite to the real world ,that's we you have a bad dream ,it means that you be lucky or something good is going to happen ,so cheer on ,you may have a sweet talk with your BF,i believe that you two will be happy !

No , it's just a dream. I have dreamed of cheating , too but haven't done it .It's innocent and it should affect your relationship.

It depends to the person. If the person has superstitious belief, then, it will surely affect the relationship. It's either you convince him that such dreams aren't true or prove to him that you wouldn't attempt to do that..

I have tried that already, yeah it kinda affects me. It bothered me a lot for about 2 days. I think dreams hold important keys, they are trying to warn or tell you something which is about to happen.

The fact that the boyfriend has had this dream may mean that he has underlying fears anyway and having them realized in a dream may have really spooked him. Reassure him that you aren't going to cheat him and that he has no reason to worry.

Hello anna, Well, it's not only because of the dream he is treating you like that. He has it in his head, already, that is why he is acting like that. He seems to be a jealous kind. You need to give him reassurance. But at the same time he should feel guilty for making you feel this way. Anyways, you know you don't cheat him, so you should try to make things better. But, i have to say he should be the one to apologize. It's just that feeling of insecurity that makes him feel this way, i guess. He thinks a lot about it, and that is why he see such dreams in the first place.

For me not but there's something question I will keep it until i will said it is true I will investigate first.

Hello there, my girlfriend always dreams about things. and mostly in her dreams I am in it. She always share to me what she had dreamed about. And I just listen to her, but with all the situations she had in her dreams i really do not believe that it will even come true. So far, she had not dreamed of me cheating on her, but I always re assure her that even in bad times i would not cheat on her and leave her.

Hi, You mean that you cheated your boyfriend in his dreams. And he is panic and angry with you. I just cant believe this. I can say anything I have dreamed of you as nobody can see my dream except me. I can say whatever I want That I had a dream of such things. I would never consider dream it is an action of brain when we fall asleep, nothing more than that. how would he make you responsible for his dreams.Did his dreams happen in real life too. For me I would never consider dreams. Calpro

Well its strange but it was just a dream , i gues i will tell my gf and i think that will be it but still its a nightmare . Well i might feel strange when i woke up , but i will be just as good because it was a nightmare . I think it will not effect me overall .

hmm.. sorry to tell that your boyfriend is stupid believing in dreams. Well.. he better check on this if this is true, then angry if necessary. But if he feels disappointed because of a dream.. well.. he better check on himself first. Well.. different people also have different quality also. He may need some time to recover from his dream. Maybe...