I don't feel like studying recently

We all get that. I experienced the same thing back in school days. All you have to do is realize that love life and education shouldn't merged because something like that might happen.

Studies shape your life keep you on top. I know it happens with most of us when it is the issue of girl. But my friend remember one thing. A year lost in your education cannot be brought back. If you are successful in life girls will follow you undoubtedly. Forget the girl and concentrate on what makes you profit. It is your studies. Your parents might be paying you college fees, think about them when you get memories of that girl. Just take white paper draw a line separating the from top to bottom write what are the advantages of studies and and girls opposite to each other. I am sure you will have more advantages with studies. Never neglect your studies friend, nobody will care you if you are not well educated. Good Luck Calpro

Okay, I need to smack some sense into. If you don't study, then you won't pass your classes, and if you don't pass your classes, that's bad too. You may love this girl, but if she doesn't love you back, then why obsess over her? This is girl is not worth all of this pain and aggravation. What you need to do is breathe, and once you are done doing that tell yourself that you have to focus on your studies because if you don't then what are you accomplishing. I was in love once too, but I still had to focus on my studies.

Do you have a hobby? A activity you like to do? Take a break and go do it. Then come back and study.

Have this in mind, Career comes first !!!! Girl might come today and go tomorrow...But you have to concentrate on your studies. Your whole family will be proud of you if u study well... I too had the similar experience during my college, but i decided Career as the first goal and i concentrated much on studies, though my full concentration was not given to studies, there was a corner where that girl disturbed me, but see the results, the girl got high scores, though i came up with a decent score and graduated... Make sure, your life is solely dependent on what u do in your college !!! I have some who followed some girls and they struggled much in the end, even though they cleared, they had much problems...

You have to know when to draw a line between relationships and studies. In my school, almost all the people here are dating and none are concentrating in school. As a student, you must prioritize when to do and when not to do. If that girl does not love you or what, so be it. What's most important for you now is to study hard and get into a university. Good luck!

You may need some time out because you’re feeling down and that may or may not be possible. You must consider the importance of your studies in regards to your future. The girl in question may not be part of your future but your studies and qualifications are! Don’t allow yourself to become a victim by letting one rejection shape your future. Empower yourself by focusing on your studies!

KoAebryant, Yeah, I've never liked to study all that much. But my main motivation is keeping my grades high. I always study the night before, and that's it, because I work better under pressure, with an approaching deadline. When it comes to it, I always see education as the most important thing. I would suggest separating your love life from your education, as you don't want those two things to mix. That can end up really badly. Set some goals for yourself. Try to maintain all 95%'s or something, and try to reach your goal. I always need some kind of motivation to keep me going, so try it out. I even apply these techniques to making money online. I start out by choosing something I would really want, and looking at the price. Then, I set a deadline, and try to meet my goal by that deadline. It works very well. Good luck! Annie

same here pal. well, please try not to be depressed. take some chocolates and bananas. get back to your goal and priority. im sure that isnt the girl.

well if you are not able to study because a girl have left you and you are depressed then think this as a good opportunity to study. study anything you like even if it is not in your course because this will divert your attention and you will be normal again....all the best

It's a normal thing to not want to study even if you know that this test could decide your whole future. I do this all the time, I find that studying at at knight helps. When it came to my learner test for driving I studied the night before the test and I passed, but I don't recommend it and it was a close call.

Brother, I think everyone has experienced it like u get through. even we know our primary task is study but we still could not control our heart, right?

Hm , try to go out with friends . Forget about all your studies for a day or two and just relax . After that you won't have trouble studying I think . At least that's how I deal with my studies - every time I get bored and feel like dropping out of school I go out to a club , relax for 24-48 hours and start to study with a great enthusiasm . Try it too.It might help.

Your girlfriend should not be making you choose between her or your life. She should respect and trust you in doing your own things and succeed in your life. Go for your dreams, i mean your future. =)