Who is the best in your family

You keep surviving that is great. I come from a huge dysfunctional family and lived for many years trying to compete and being abused verbally, mentally and physically. I have after all these years decided to not play the game any more. I am me and I live the way I want. I do not let abuse or anything else in my world now so I can be at peace with myself. I love my family but I do not like the way the act and behave. I do not care what one has or the other I love them all for who they are to bad they are not the same way So I guess I am not the best

No one is the best in my family. Unfortunately I am having problems to each of everyone with them. I won't bother to post here because it will be too long if I am going to express it here but the truth is I don't have my peace of mind with them.

Hi, From my point of view, there is no comparison on who is the best in my family. Everyone in my family are the best. Both my parents and all my siblings are always the best in my heart. They are my everything and I love them alot. Although we are living far away, but we always keep in touch with each other, I will visit them once a year with my husband and my son.

Hi, Everyone in my family are the best,including my parents,my siblings(brother and sister). They are the best for me and without them, I won't be in my current situation now. They give me support all the time and although we are not living in the same country now,but we always keep in touch with each other. I will pay them a visit once a year.

For me in our family the best is not influence us because we are tech to became a humble and not prejudices.

The best financially off in my family is my oldest brother who is a cop. I have one unemployed brother and one sister who is in a lot of debt and running from creditors. She's in the entertainment industry, which is tough. I am a broke college student and my other brother is underpaid and overworked as a systems analyst. He's the smartest of us kids, but he didn't make the smartest choice in major in college (philosophy instead of computer science); plus my parents didn't allow him to go to the school of his choice because they didn't want him to go out of state. Ironically, I ended up at his/my dreamschool and am struggling to graduate because it just might be too hard for me or I might just be too ADHD for it. I think given some time I might be successful, but I'm still young and apathetic. My sister may finally get her big break and pass all of us. And my brother might get his start up off the ground and surpass everyone.

In a big family there bound to be stiff competition among the siblings to get the attention from the parents. I myself come from a big family and each siblings has their own unique character that can sometimes cause friction as we seem to be thinking differently. But fortunately my parents are fair and everyone is given fair amount of inheritance and love. I am happy as far as my family is concerned.

I used to think that my parents unfairly favored my older and younger sisters. But now that I am grown and have two kids of my own I realize they probably didn't favor one over the other, it's just that my younger sister needed more hand holding and my older sister is a drama queen and both needed more attention than I did. I do feel some pride in knowing that they see me as the most stable and responsible one out of us all - boy are my siblings going to be mad when they find out I am the one who get's control of everything.

No one here is the best in my family because all of them are really stressful. They tend to argue just in small things. Sometimes if I am asking something they are too dismissive that they just want to project how good they are but for real they can't even answer that. In other terms they are projecting their arrogance. It is hard to approach them when it is not really a problem.

I don't have favourites . I love all my family members and try to learn from their mistakes and listen to their advices . I don't try to look like somebody of my family , I prefer building my own life , the way I like it .