Point finger how bad to you?

hello friend, Well i seen things like this in the neighborhood back in our hometown when women fight with each other,most cases were gossips,back fightings and false info. I never experienced things like those even during my school days. You might think i don't socialized with people or i might be like a nun enclosing myself inside my room,but NO. I am a very sociable person,but i know how to handle situation and i always choose sets of friends. What's funny is when people fight each other,pointing fingers cursing and even harming each other physically and then after sometime you will see them laughing and partying again as if nothing happens. It's good to think they never hate each other after those incidents,but,then again each time they had fights,they do the same thing,hurting and cursing Can't think if they're plastic or stupid or mentally ill (that's one reason why i am choosy when it comes to friendship) Have a good day

Yeah, when me and my siblings would fight and they would point their fingers in anger, I really get irritated with this, but since i'm the youngest i have to put up with it. But if a nonrelative would do that to me, I'm going to grab his or her arm and try to twist it so hard it'll break his or her bone hahahhaha! I would try to!

While I try not to get entangled into any situations, sometimes the circumstances just happen. At times, keeping quiet does help as it creates some tense atmosphere and hence the parties involved will feel awkward and will try to soften it. However any slight trigger may end up in a bigger disagreement. It is not professional but when one losses one's cool, it's uncontrollable. As long as one is sincere, let is out and make friends after it should be fine. In fact, I had gained some friendship over a squabble. Perhaps it is what they say as we get to know one another more when we fight. lol.

visavis I seldom have ever got that angry as I have had pretty good self control. Maybe because I am shy and not a fighter. but if someone 'picks on someone smaller and nobody seems to want to get involved I will stick up for the smaller one. I did that as a child when I quelled a bully twice my size a nd I have done that as an adult. I get really angry but I hold it until I reach the bully then I took my foot. shoe a d all , swung it back hard and zowie I kicked this abuvsive husband right in the correct spot and down he went , groaning in pain. A police woman saw the whole thing and instead of arresting me for assaut she handcuffed him while he was still in pain, thanked me and got an ambulance for his wife whom he had been beating.Other than those incidents I am a very introverted person, shy and very peaceful.

When someone points the finger, i will point the FINGERS back implying my insult is even more damaging than theirs, they will usually come back with foul language and all you have to reply is " is that all? your parents taught you that? that's really nice of of your parents". That will be sure to anger him/her some more and he/she will just walk away in shame or will beat you up. All you have to do is defend yourself, don't retaliate and just stare at his eyes.

I have not experience this finger pointing scenario, but I have seen my mom do it to our neighbor. She was really mad because she let the man and his family to leave on our land and little by little he was killing our fruit bearing trees by putting motor oil on it and when my mom said that we are going to use the land after many years of letting them use it. They claim that they are the owner of the land and if my mom wanted them to leave she should pay for it and the amount of the money they spent for building the house. I never seen her that angry in my whole life. She was swearing and pointing her finger.