How to overcome some unpleasant days?

The similar situation to me. The job what i'm doing now is hard but little pay. The most important is i can not see propect. So my way to solve is doing the job, at the same time, finding a another job. But you already quit the job. I can understand your stree from your family,your deep heart. All i can see is hang on,buddy. Everything gonna be ok.

Hi, At this point of time, if you move away from your family you will incur additional costs, which will be too much for you as you're working as a waiter. So that is only the last option. You should explore some other options now. May be your family is disappointed with you because they don't see any prospects in the job you're currently doing. They are upset because they think you've not yet realized your true potential and that you're satisfied with little without aspiring for more. Now its your responsibility to change that conception of your family. You should first calm yourself and free your mind from all aggressive resistance that you've put against the arguments of your family. They are pushing you more because they think you're not understanding their arguments. So you better find a way to make them believe that their propositions are of the greatest importance to you and that you're trying hard to get a new job. You should also inform them about the current economic situation of your country where getting a job isn't easy anymore. Do whatever you need to make them believe that you're actually TRYING. You're looking for a better opportunity and the job as a waiter is not what you yourself planned for. You will quit the job as soon as you get a better one. If your efforts are sincere and your logic is clear then they will understand you in time. Just be patient with that. Thanks. God bless you.

I feel sad for you my friend. But to tell you frankly, that is only a shallow situation compared to my situation or other people's situation. It is really unpleasant when people around you or your family will scold you or mumble at you for being jobless. Perhaps, they expect you to have something for your own or to help them in the expenses. At these times, it is really tough to find a job without any part time. You have to consider your family situation too. You are thinking of moving away, do you think that is the solution or an escape? You have to be practical my friend.

I'm sure there's a valid reason why you quit your job. But if you don't have a job and decide to move out from your parent's house, how are you gonna pay for rent, bills, etc? I suggest you look for a job first, then consider moving out if you really have to. But if you think that you'll be ok living at home with your new job - then just stay at home. At least you don't have to pay rent! Good luck!

If you really feel comfortable moving out and living independently then I think it's about time that you do, since you get annoyed by people around you telling you what to do. And maybe when you move out, you can find your own job and try to earn more on your own without depending on anybody!

hmm.. this is a dilemma situation. in a one side you want to find a job, but in the other side, you need a spare time to think and not to be disturbed. maybe, my suggestion, you need to solve this by green way, talk with your family softly, and explain that you will find a job soon. that't the ideal situation. but there is another alternate ways, you need to spare your time with your friend more often, no need to move from your family. i'm feeling relaxed if i'm going with my friend. who knows that your friend can help you to find a job. ok, that's just my idea. hope it'll help you. :D

I appologize beforehand if my response hurts you or offends you in any way. It is not my intention, however I do have some strong opinions on the subject. See, I believe that everybody should at least try pulling their weight. Which means either working and earning money to help with bills at home, or helping around the house. It's okay if you quit your job because you don't find it fulfilling. But at the same time, sitting at home and aimlessly surfing the net is not okay. Especially not okay to your family, who needs to support you in your aimlessness. It's true that sometimes parents don't understand that we want to do thing our way, but at the same time it's not okay to expect them to support you without expecting anything in return. So I think you should talk to your mom and discuss what it is you weant and wha she wants (apart from you getting a job). I'm sure the situation can be resolved.

If that's what you think, follow your heart. I'm not encouraging you to just move out and not care about your family. What I'm trying to say is that, if you need some time to think, but you can't tell your family, then pick a day or two to be out for the whole day and think about what you're going to do. Maybe you can ask a friend out for help or seek a listening ear, have someone listen to your troubles and that person could help you out? I know it's hard to be out of a job. No money to foot the bills and when at home, parents keep on nagging and often see you as a pain and have totally no regard for you. I understand that. Maybe if you try talking to your parents, they could understand?

whatever you plan to do in your life is your own look out. dont wait for your family to get angry at you for not getting a job.. you cant blame them though. for the mean time,do household chores or anything worthwhile instead of doing nothing. in other words be useful. hehehehe. i hope you can a find job soon bec. its not easy to be at home doing nothing.

Hi, pal! I understand what you're talking about! Actually, I experienced the same thing about one year ago. It was awful for me. I was not able to live such life. I found a job and everything changed. I can say it's better now. In my opinion, you just have to find a new job. Then you will be able to find your own place and live your own life. Well, until your brother come over your place and ruin all your life (of course, that's a part of another story ;-] ). The last one was just a joke :) Just have a good time! You have to know that you'll always have all these unpleasant days while you're spending your time staying at home. It's never gonna get better this way! Greetings!

First,I think you really need to assess your life at this point of time. You may want to move out from your family but before you do that, make sure that you will be able to support yourself or you might end up in the streets penniless. Now that you are still with your parents, find a job real quick and then you can say goodbye to your family.

yes, from what you day, i find that you stay at home without working. in my opinion, you need to find the new job. If you find a good job, all your family members will be happy for you and they will help you a lot. sometimes hwn our parents munble at us, it is because they ahve high expection and you know , they have give us so much love. so we need to think form their side, and try our best to find a job and let them feel happy for you. they could not bear any worries for you. if you are old enough to go out working, it is you to take the duty.