Do you feel akward being with your father?

Hi xannex, my father is so good, he was like friend to us, since our family is a joint family we all used to live together my father's mother, brothers and their daughter and sons too. So we have good time before my marriage. He used to care us, rise up with so much affection. We never used to afraid of my father. Now after my marriage i feel i am missing him and my all family members a lot. You know one thing if father commands on us to do this or that, we must understand that work we have to learn, if they didn't love us then they will not tell us anything or scold us. Some of my friends also complaint about their father saying that he will scold them, but i will tell them because he love us that is why he is scolding you, if he didn't love you then he will not bothered what way you are and where you are going. So we have to understand our parents too, shouldn't think about us alone. Now you will not understand all these, when you also become a parent then you will exactly understand the situation of a parent. So don't misunderstand our parents and their love. Have a good day.

Although I am not that really close to my Father, I don’t feel awkward being with him most especially when I am with my friends or someone that I am affiliated with. I don’t feel awkward at all since my Father is a person who does blend in with other people. So, it’s more of an ease for me to introduce them to him because he is very approachable and can socialize with any age group as well.

My dear xannex My parents are no more, for me they were the sweetest person on the earth, they gave me the best possible care, love and affection, plus the highest possible education, i am obliged to them.. You should try to keep your head cool, try to avoid arguments with him, i am sure things will cool down lol.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . God bless you. Welcome always.

My father is not alive now. But when he was, I had a great friendly relation with him. He was my best friend. I used to share all my experiences with him, If I was in trouble, I first rushed to him for help. I still now miss him.

Aha, finally I got a place to write something bad about my father. It is true with me. My father is always in a bad mood I don't know why. I saw him always this way from the childhood. I felt bad for him. I was beaten sometimes. Then one day when I am a grown up I argued with him and I told him that I will not take the same behavior any more. It took a lot of me to say those words. I think now it is fine and now he don't abuse me anymore. After the day I never asked for the money from him. I never wanted to ask for money because he always give a lecture on money and that make me feel bad. I thought many times about it that why he always talk the same things again and again. So I thought to not ask for it anymore so that I don't get abused anymore. I feel more free and self dependent now. I think there are always some similarities between the father and child. I read that many behavior of a person are decided with the genes. So in that case I am more like my father. That is fine with me. I don't care even if I am like him. I am happy that I told him to behave in a good manner. Have a nice day ahead.

Hi Xannex! I and my father were not that physically close but I love my father so much even though were not those others like they can embrace their father but in our case we had a tight love for each other.His always be our good provider my king and my hero. His not be that expressive but I know deep in my heart that He cares for me and love me as His daughter..:)