Do you hide Salary details from your partner?

I am not married to my guy. And I don't discuss my salary with him. If he asked point blank what I make, I would tell him but I see the point of telling him. Our relationship isn't based on money. He doesn't Have to support me like he would in a marriage.

Hi, Since I am not working, I do not receive monthly salary into my bank account,but I do not have the need to keep my bank account so confidential. Both me and my husband are trusting each other and we do not hide anything about our bank account. ALthough we have separate personal bank account,but we do share our burden together. He can view my account and I can view his account anytime we want.

Hi Ajay, No I never did hide my income or anything from my husband, boyfriend. I have had it done to me though and I found it insulting and unfair. If we are in it together then we are in it together. Its just wrong. If he is afraid his wife will demand things then it shows that they need to talk and come to some sort of agreement on spending. My personal experience with men hiding their income has been that they hide it not so much to keep me from spending it but so that they can spend more on their own selfish wants.

i don't.... i guess there's no need to. and if he demands for something i cannot give, i simply say no, and explain why, and he understands...which almost never happens anyway, i think i'm the one who does more of the demanding (lol).

Ajay beta My earnings from different sources is an open book, not only for my wife, but also for my sons, i have many bank accounts, in all my wife and any one of my sons are joint account holders!! Money is root of all problems as well as happyness in a family, so there must be full transparency. One CA takes care of my tax matters, he knows every thing.. Thank you so much for sharing this story.He should not have deleted the sms. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead. God bless you. Welcome always.

Hello friend, i wish i was doing it long ago, when we were much better with the money, that we are now This is how we would have some saved money, to use now for expenses. But no, me and my boyfriend work together and we never hide things from each other. We may have some secrets, but the secrets are not about money. I'm good at making budget, and i try to damp the expenses as much as i can. The reason is that if we save money from something, we will buy something else, which is a good idea. For now, we live poor, not because we don't receive good money, but because we have large expenses. Some of the things are from my boyfriend's past, when he took credits from two banks. Now we have rent to pay and everything else, caring for our own life, so ... damping is something, which works pretty good for me. I'm not exactly the typical kind of woman, which is spending as much money, as she have. For me saving is something better, so if i have 5$ i know what are our priorities and i know that food and bills are first things, which we need at home. Everything else is on second place.

No, it's something that we've always shared.

I don't get paid on the first of the month as my pay is four weekly rather than monthly. Regardless of this when I get paid I don't tell my boyfriend but if he asks then I don't hide it from him either. It doesn't bother me whether he knows or not, he asks to borrow money from me every so often but he does give me a date at which he will pay it back ... usually when his student loan comes through.

No way.I think it is very wrong to hide things from your partner especially your salary.Your partner needs to know it.After all you are sharing your entire life with him or her.I for one never hide my salary from my partner.Being transparent is the first step to being trustworthy.

I have never hid my financial details from my partner and he doesn't withhold his from me. What's mine is his and vise versa. Plus, it would be very difficult for him to hide something from me now considering him and I have the same bank account.

Absolutely not. I do not think that is a good thing to do, and I do not see how it would benefit anyone. Not to mention how bad I would feel about lying.

i cannot hide my salary to my partner because she's in our accounting department and she knew my salary. and she's the one who get my salary because she's the one to do the budget. hehehe... we also have one bank account