What you and me expect from cheating?

@visavis (5934)
Philippines
December 1, 2010 4:36am CST
Do you agree with me that our life here on earth are full of cheating? Why I asked? Because see our sorroundings all aspects of life have cheating, like cheat to earn more money, cheating in the business name a few but many more. Even in our feelings cheating is applicable. But what do you expect for those aspect of life which cheating is the main formula? Is it for better or for worst. Give me your break to express and think what in your life that you think cheating and what is the result on it? Share to us and learn from... see you around
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9 responses
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
Oh! But this is a pessimistic way of looking at life. Sure there are cheaters but I would like to believe there are also honest people who try to earn their living honestly and generally live a life of honesty in all aspects. Somehow, I still have faith in the goodness of man. Am I being corny? Perhaps we are just exposed to cheating in media and the like. And then again, the stories of the good ones are seldom told. So we don't get to know them. But am sure they are just there, silent expecting nothing in return. Chhers.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
Yeah I agreed with your pasitive thinking that might be having few are still honest but who are they? Are you? see you around
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@cecil04 (409)
• South Africa
1 Dec 10
A lot of people say that life is just a game and in games you cheat sometime. I know cheating is a bad thing but sometimes you just cannot get around it. Like if you are in a place with a long line and you see a chance to cut in, would you not do it.
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
Hi ther, you know some says life is not easy. right! Life is a wheel sometimes up and sometime down. Do you beleive in peaceful life. If you want a peacful life cheating has not space on that.. In your example if in a place with a long line (assuming in a line for registration something), you use the word "see a chance" which denote two meaning bad or right, if i see a chance (right way) meaning somebody offer me to take I get it but If the chance is to put myself in trouble because other will react that is cheating. Because you did not see their position also... see you around thanks
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Dec 10
visavis I really do not think I have ever actually cheated though several times situations came up where it would be easier for me if I just did not do what I should, but I rode that out and did do what I knew I should even though it made me very unpopular with the man behind me in the line who was shoving me out of the way so the pretty cashier would wait on him first. I moved in front of him an said I was next and you know it. so wait on me and sir you wait til I am finished. Merry Christmas. so much for Christmas line cheaters. I worked hard all my life not to cheat but play fair and think I have pretty much done so too. I have seen cheaters and they think they will get away with it but it comes around and bites them in the butt.What goes around comes around.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
hello friend, If someone does the cheating,like cheating in business,at work,his/her emotion and feelings... Someone who done those things...CHEATS THEMSELVES ALONE! So,let it be,it is their choice. Besides,he/she who cheats,sins,and he/she who sins is liable of his/her own actions. have a good day
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@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
1 Dec 10
It happens all over the place and it irritates me. College kids on spring break and freeway drivers are the worst. I do not cheat. I hate it.
@kyugen21 (23)
2 Dec 10
hhhmmm well like in school all students do cheating, even you are the smartest person in the class still you cheat, in this world i guess we all cheat even in our relationship we lie and make excuses but we cheated already,^^
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
1 Dec 10
It is true that there are a lot of cheaters in this world. There are just as many honest people too, Cheaters just show their true colors to us more often. Honest people don't need to brag as much about what kind of people they are.
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
hello visavis! yes, cheating is a part of our life here on earth. Since time immemorial, various acts of cheating had already been done, as can be gleaned from the history of mankind. However, i don't think that it is the innate nature of man to cheat. Man was created in the image and likeness of God. God is perfection himself and therefore is not in any way linked to any cheating acts. Man was given a will to choose between good and evil, and because of man's weakness, for all worldly things and of the flesh, he gets enamored in living a sinful life. Man learns to cheat his fellow man to edge on, to gain power, fame and fortune. He learns to cheat to attain his dreams, because many men want success in shortcut. however, there are still people who have not been corrupted by evil, by cheating. No matter what they held steadfast to their principle, to their moral values, even at the cost of being ridiculed, of being stepped on and abused by others.
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
There are many instance that I felt cheated by a friend. Most of my friends would confide to me all their problems. They give high regards to my words and find my advices very comforting and hopeful. I feel great to know that I know I have helped them so much and it feels like I have saved someone. But when things get better or thye go back to that mistake, they seem to forget about me. I don't mean to interfere with what they wanted in their lives. They shared, and so I did. I proposed, and so they listened. They didn't follow me after all! I feel bad about that kind of situations and it's being repeated again and again but I never get tired of listening, scolding and telling them they're wrong when they are.