do you believe that true love can wait even if how long it takes?
@nathaniacherry (85)
December 1, 2010 8:04am CST
for me yes! because if you love the person you really have to wait especially if your not at the right age yet.and there are also a lot of things you have to consider, like if both of you are still a student. you have to prioritize your studies first.
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@nerein (283)
• United States
5 Dec 10
Yes I do believe that true love can wait. Even if it takes a long time to come together. Because I believe that true love has no time limit. But on the other hand how do we know that it is true love. What true love is all depends on what we want true love to be in our minds and hearts.
@nathaniacherry (85)
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8 Dec 10
regarding your question..you personally will know if it true love or not...
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 10
i think we dont have to wait for one person until 20 or 30 years because he is your true love. because i believe God has His path for all of us. maybe in time we will be with another man, and then get divorce and met the true love from long time ago and then they got married.
or a woman divorce with her husband and after separated for few years, they realized that they still love each other and then got married again and live hapilly until they grew old.
God has His mistery to make us find our true love, but He never let us waiting and realized that we are waiting for the true love.
i've found my true love after 12 years i love him, and he also already love me for 12 years. but we never thought about it. i have another boyfriend, he didnt have any girlfriend but he focus on his work. and for few years we forget each other. i dont even know where he was and i still live my life with my boyfriend that time. but who know God's plan. He broke my heart, and let me met my first love who is my true love, and everything started from beginning and now he is my boyfriend for 2 years.
i dont think that for 12 years he waited for me and i waited for him. because we lived our life without knowing that this will happen someday. but then, when we didnt realized about it, God gave him to me again.
so, it doenst mean that for one boy, you have to make yourself suffered by only waiting for him and never know when he will show up. if you wait for someone that you think he is your true love and when you grow old and still waiting for him but he still never show up. then you will regret it, isnt it.
@nathaniacherry (85)
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2 Dec 10
yah i got your point.what i'm trying to say especially for teenagers is that they should wait for the right time. there are many teenagers today got pregnant at their early age and they not yet ready to have a baby or build their own family.so what will happen? plan to abort the baby? and that's not good.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
1 Dec 10
True love is something worth waiting a lifetime for. Sometimes we can be in too much of a hurry to find love. When it is rushed, the love may seem real but sometimes isn't. No matter how long true love may take to find its mark, it does not disappoint.
@nathaniacherry (85)
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1 Dec 10
there are many people today that very hot with it comes to love. they tend to go in haste in finding their lifetime partner even they are not yet at the right age. that's why many people today got problem with this issue. and i'm sure those people suffered with their decisions.
@concept001 (430)
• India
1 Dec 10
Yes I think that true love can wait but here I want to add one thing that we really need to understand what true love is. Sometimes we may get confused between true love, attraction or even a simple likeliness for someone. We really have to clearly differentiate between these three. I f somebody is confused I will give some idea from my personal experience true love doesn't really bother for physical beauty its more of internal beauty. If someone thinks that he or she loves him or her because he or she is very handsome or beautiful then I think this is not true love. This is a mere attraction. True love is like a bird set it free if it returns it is yous if it doesn't it was never yours
@nathaniacherry (85)
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1 Dec 10
yes, true love can wait even if how long it takes. with regards your addition it's true that the real love doesn't matter with how beautiful you are but i think there are also some that at first they are attracted with beauty but later on it will develop into a real love.
@abhishek2711 (3)
• India
1 Dec 10
Can true love wait? I think not. And I will tell you why. You may truly love a person but does that person know about your feelings? If he/she does not then how do you expect that true love will find expression, how many people have you seen who have loved truly but have not been able to mouth their feelings and thus suffer silently. In fact if you truly love a person even once in your life it is your duty to let that person know for if you do not, not only are you depriving yourself of a lifelong shot at happiness but you are also robbing that person of happiness. If its true love then no one can make him/her happier can they? So if you come across true love be sure to voice it and make it happen, for all other things will take care of themselves. Finding true love is God's blessing..grab it because not many are so lucky.
@nathaniacherry (85)
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1 Dec 10
you have a point friend but for me true love can wait even if how long it takes. even if you wait for 10 years if you really love that person and that person is not ready to enter in that relationship then you have to wait.you don't have to go in haste if getting into a relationship. you have to know the person first.