Don't obsess, because they may reject you, don't stay away, because they may ...

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Hello friends again. Tonight i am in friendly mood, which means that i'm thinking about my friends One of my best friends wrote in skype something very very interesting. I haven't accepted to read it or hear it from her, because she is kind of strange person. We got great friendship, we nearly can read the mind of the other, but i'm more about thinking, she is more about acting, if you know what i mean. So she wrote that motto in her mood in skype: "Don't obsess, they may reject you, don't stay away, they may forget you". I'm really interested how she reached that point, was it because of me? We were great, when we worked together. The best team. We could understand each other with eyes only, without talking. So much laugh, so much time, we really know each other very good. 3 years ago i left that job, where we were working together, after me she did it too and somehow we lost each other. 2 years ago i understood that she get married and now she has little child. I'm little far from her, we talked often in skype before, but since we got problems around, i don't have so much time for talking. At the same time i got another reason - i don't have kids and sometimes she is just wasting herself in talking for her daughter. I really love her, because i don't this side of her personality. Somehow she became too serious about her age, serious boyfriend, marriage, child and i am still in good relationship. May be you know what i mean, when sometimes you have nothing to say to your friends, because their type of living and their priorities are different than you remember. I saw her this month, with the little girl, we drunk coffee and it was amazing meeting. But i am not sure, do i want to write with her, so much as it was before, or not. I feel like i really don't have what to discuss with her. Even she is one really good friend, even if she knows me very good, she is just in other part of her life, when for her different stuff are important. And now about the topic ... I just loved it. This is how i always keep relations with my friends. Never press them, never ask something special, never put my nose in their personal life. And this is how my friends apply to me - with the same habits as my own. When you have one good friendship, your friend is really close to you, but still stay away from you for a while, what would you do? Would it be the same as the topic now or something else?