Help! I'm preggers and my boyfriend can't stand to look at me
By jazel_juan
@jazel_juan (15746)
Philippines
December 1, 2010 9:11pm CST
Ok this is not about me. lol.
i was just surfing and landed into this article about this girl pregnant and his bf does not even look at her..or kiss her because she is getting fat. it just getsss so annoying when i hear such stories because there are really those who do not know how it is like to be pregnant like that bf of hers. plus he is scum bag! hahhaha
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/parenting/user-post-help-im-preggers-and-my-boyfriend-cant-stand-to-look-at-me-2412121/?posted=1#postcomment
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11 responses
@Jacobus1919 (1683)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Well, it is a sad story to read. This might show, that the guy is a total heartless person. He was partly the reason why she is pregnant. Why act that way?
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
hahahaha yes it is not me! crazy. i did scare you huh? 3 is enough, more than enough
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
2 Dec 10
That's just sad. I hope she gets out of the relationship while she can. It's so weird that a guy would be so immature about a pregnant lady. Not saying that pregnant-ladies are necessarily a turn-on but I think the whole thing is beautiful! Women glow when they have a baby growing inside them, and the belly is also really amazing (crazy) looking. So if anything I would think a guy would worship a woman after she got pregnant. Hmm. That's sad.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
hahaha yes pregnancy beautiful, i went through it 3 times though it was not easy, there were times it was rocky when me and my huby would even fight but we still got it through. pregnancy is a miracle on process! 
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
2 Dec 10
How can such people exist? This is akin to not bearing any responsibility for the girl right? Just because she gained weight, doesn't mean that the boy should do this. I feel sorry for the girl.
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
2 Dec 10
Hi dear,
I hope the b/f is not her husband. If he really loves her, he will go for everything. That is the difference between a b/f and a husband. I advice that all the unmarried should not go for such things and should not get pregnant until they get married. If happened so, this may be the net result. But who cares??
Regards,
Thank-s
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Hello Jazel,
Very sadly speaking, Men who are not deeply in love with their Girls tend to wear out really quick that ends up not liking their women anymore. meaning, they look their women on the Physical Aspect and not the entire aspect of it.I don't think this guy is in love with her Girl Friend but only look at her in the different low level sexually. this isn't new. 
@toniganzon (72532)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Poor girl! With that kind of attitude, I can say that it's a mistake if she decides to marry him at all. That is if she's considering that fact. Women are very emotional when they're pregnant and they need all the support they can get from their man!
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
yes i hope she wont marry him unless he awakens or something.
@monsterfishlover (222)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Getting fatter when pregnant is not the reason why guys should fall out of love with their partners or even look at others. Sometimes girls really can't avoid getting fatter when their pregnant, it's a reaction of their body which they can't control anymore. They can't do diets 'coz the child on their womb also depends on the food their mother eats.
He's BF is an as*hole.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
haha right, he is an as*hole. she does not even deserve her at all.
@syoti20 (5292)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
If the scenario is vice versa, the bf is the pregnant and the gf is not pregnant. What will the bf response if he hears her gf doesn't like her because she can't see the person whom she loved before and the girl didn't kissed her as the way there are.
The bf is hypocrite if he didn't feels any sadness on the response of the gf towards her
@alisonz (3)
•
3 Dec 10
This sounds like a relationship in trouble. It's really sad to know that they made a baby together, but from the sound of it, he's not committed to her. When I was pregnant my husband loved me no matter how I looked. What a loser, they need some couple's therapy.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
yes husband should love us more when are at women! it is not easy to carry a child for nine months!
ne months!