Fallen out of love

@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
December 1, 2010 11:02pm CST
I hope this goes thru because I do not understand what is happenig with myLot sometimes it does not go thru and it is hard to retype and go back to the idea that was supposed to be posted... Anyways, the subject is about falling out of love... What are the things that make you fall out of love or circumstances... you must admit that sooner if not later in a relationship it is bound to happen..and the next thing you know the relationship is dissolved.. can you help me about this...
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@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Days ago my boyfriend asked me what will make me fall out of love... Im very certain that dishonesty and infidelity are the two top reasons that will really end it for me. He told me he would try his best to not make me fall out of love and asked if there's anything else... i didnt know any other thing until yesterday... We argued over something that he pushed me into doing but which im not completely amenable to. i have my reasons and i intend to keep it that way. then i realized it has been 2 days since he felt bad about the whole thing and never spoke to me since. i tried to talk to him even if it was not my fault and clearly it should be him who should say sorry but i resorted to just wait. no sign, no whatever from him. and now i feel that im slowly getting tired, this argument being the hundredth we've argued about in months. so i know i am about to fall out of love because of his being unreasonable, being childish, and not understanding my principles. more importantly i lost my patience since i saw that he only cared about his feelings.
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Whooaaa... Did i touch on something...It was just a query... little did i know that it will stir some emotions... I agree with you boys are self centered that they only care what they want whether it will hurt the other party... You don't deserve him.. you dump him right away! lol.. May I know what is that thing that you have been arguing about... I want to add you as my friend...
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
no worries, i just had to share my take on your query so its all good :) you can check on my previous discussion, you will find there what the argument was about. not that i would like the whole virtual world to know about it... i was just totally confused and needed upfront opinions.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
For me it is about to time that you need to adopt the kind of thing that is bad.
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Just what do mean by that...
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
If you base love on feelings, then you will definitely fall out of love at one point because emotions fade with time unless the couple exerts an effort to keep the fire burning in their relationship, so to speak. But in my opinion, there's more to love than just feelings. It's a decision to commit and care for the other person no matter what and despite fading emotions and difficult circumstances. I guess for me, one thing that could make me fall out of love is infidelity and betrayal. It will be the last straw that would make me decide to cut the relationship. Minor things can be sorted out.
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Thanks.. but where do you base love... definitely, love is about feelinngs and emotions.. but i agree with you that betrayal and infidelity are the most grave offense that a lover can do to a partner that may cause the dissolution of a partnership..
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