what will i do to get rid the lady that was flirting my husband?
By gracielle
@gracielle (346)
Philippines
December 2, 2010 12:38am CST
My husband is a band member, a keyboardist to be precise.. He's the one who contacts people for their gigs,& there is this lady a manager of a bar that's flirting with him. My husband don't want to say something against the lady for she may not let their band play in their bar & it's unfair for the other member of my husbands band. So this girl keeps on texting, chating my husband on his facebook & cellphone, most of the time I was the one answering her because my husband don't want to talk to her, I too don't know what should i really say to the girl, she might get mad & then banned my husbands' band on their bar. My husband too was puzzled on what to do,most of the time he just ignores the girl.
But last night I made my stand & no matter what will be the outcome i don't care. I talk straight to the girl & ask her to live my husband alone using my husbands' facebook, my husbands thanked me because finally the girl stop texting him. But i'm not sure when will it last, what should i do to make her stop forever? any suggestions? thanks....
5 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
The only thing you can do is befriend her. If you do that, she'll realize that she's flirting with her friend's husband, and therefore will be disgusted by herself with what she's doing.
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@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
I did try to befriend with her but, I can't help myself to be plastic to her. Seeing her makes me feel like I want punch her face, but I always keep my cool & just ignore her.
@krieyszel (330)
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
maybe, to file a case against to that woman. If there is, I dont' know why there's really that kind of woman who still flirt even though they know that the man they were flirting is taken.If the girl, still continue doing it, you have to take risk tell your husband to avoid or he should be out of that bar. Because the girl has controlled and uses her power.
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
Yes I can file something against her, maybe but I won't spend my efforts or even money not even my time on doing such things for that lonely woman, she's not worth my time. You know what happened now? she went to her home land away from our city. She gave her resignation, I don't exactly know why but she did, she's miles away now. But she still keeps on trying to flirt with my husband on facebook. Well all I can do now was laugh about it & feel sorry for her, because no matter how hard she push herself towards my husband the more she looks so stupid & dumb because even a second glance my husband did not gave him.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Dec 10
hi gracielletry reverse psychology find the flirting girl someone
unmarried that looks handsome and sic her on this guy.
My take is she likes to flirt and an new guy would pique her
interest or I hope so. I was more direct, we had helped this
woman who had a drunk for a husband and somehow she got a'
crush on my husband. He did not know what to do butwhen she ran ujp t o him, threw her arms around him , and her legs and then kissed him
on the lips, instinct took over. I grab bed her arms, and pulled her
away and told her loudly and clearly, " You have a husband of your o nwn, go buss him cause if you ever do that again to mine, you will not have a hair left on your head" she stammered something and left.she never did do that again and the supposed glamor of the
other husband sort of faded away.I am not usually agressive like
that but this woman went way too far.
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@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
I like what you did, & how you said it was perfect! =)
I'm more of quite when this things happened & I always keep my cool about it but lets face reality when things really doing something beyond their territory & invading our territory we seemed to be protective & aggressive about it..Specially my husband, I'm possessive in nature so this things really rings my bell. Her flirtation did stopped since that day that I confronted her, maybe because before she thought I don't knew what she was doing that's why she keeps on flirting with my husband. But now she knew how pissed off I was about it, but if it is, how stupid is she?!!
There are really other women who are not happy with what they have or they're just not happy at all that they seek attention from men who makes their wife happy, but they will never get that attention whatever dumbness they will do.
@Gorillafootprints925 (3586)
• United States
2 Dec 10
Just be nice. Don't be hard on yourself. Why don't you just go with your hubby on his gigs when you can so you can establish that there is a wife behind that man playing the keyboard.
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@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
It's hard to be nice on someone that's pissing me off to badly! But I'm trying my best to be a good girl.. (^_^) even if deep inside I want to crush her.. haha :D
Yes that's what i love about my husband is that when I go along in his gigs, he never leaves on my side & he always hugs & me & even kissed me. He don't care if others sees us.. The problem was with the girl I think she was obsessed to my husband,, i think.. :)
I feel sorry for her... :)
@niairen01 (1018)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
You just have to be patient about these kind of people especially that your husband is a celebrity. ^.^ Anyway , you can always ask your husband to be more showy about his status in life, Like being open how he loves you and your children (if you have one), it's nice that your husband is very loyal. ^.^
What you did is the right thing to do , but be a bit friendly, tell her.. not in a mad way that what she is doing is kinda irritating you and your sorry but you have the RIGHTS to be irritated since you are the WIFE! ask her to understand... good luck!
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@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
He is showy, he hugs & even kisses me when I go along in their gigs,.. We are on our 4th year now & still we we're like bf's & gf's..We have a son.. I just talk to the girl once cause i don't want to pissed her too much.. :)
I'm just lucky that my husband loves me that much, but there are just other ladies who's so damn retarded & dumb that they only revolves their life on one guy that no matter what they do the men will never be hers because he already belonged to me.. (^_^)
