To live or not to live with your partner/spouse

Hi moonchild! my response to you is already written is celine's reply,i had a mistake putting my response under her username,i thought i was the one who is logged in,haha! anyway,nice discussing this topic with you.

I would definitely say live together moonchild! Well,we live apart most of the time but it is because my hubby works in a cruise ship wherein he stays there for about 6 months and stay with us for about 2 months for his vacation. We do not want it that way,to live apart,but what can we do,he needs that job for us to have a better life,the economy in our country is not that good so he needs to work abroad. Our plan is to earn money so in time he will just stay here with us,we still need to earn money to have our own business. We are better living together moonchild because everythings seems to be in harmony when he is here,problems are solved easy when we're together! Well,as the saying says IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO,right?

When we are apart, we miss each other a lot. And when my loved one is near, I dont give him all happiness what to be given. Why is this so. I have not got an answer to this till now. If I dont see him for sometime, I go mad. I have to atleast speak once a day or will go crazy.

Yes we are living in good harmony as partner and we've meet all the necessary requirements to a long lasting relationship that we make it well and good. I better live with him and die with him. As a living partner and we make the most out of the years gone through think and thin we now made a strong band relationship and there is no reason to be apart until we reach the end journey.

I've been married for over 17 years and in some ways I can relate to you. There are times when my wife and I drive each other crazy but, we learn to give each other the benefit of the doubt. Love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy - love is not proud. Love behaves, love is not selfish or easily provoked, love is not evil. Love shares truth instead of spreading lies; love bares all, love believes all, love endures all, love has hope for all...love never fail. 1st Cor. 13: 4 - 8 That's the principle we go by, and it works very well..of course it does - Jesus being the center of our relationship is perfect...we are not, but He is...

It does not matter you are living or not living with your spouse/partner. Only it does matter that you should have great understanding with your spouse or partner. As a result, there will be no problem in your relationship.

I have not tried living apart but I think we would get along a lot better if we did. We tend to fight more and get on each other's nerves more now that we are older. We also have so many areas where we are different....I like quiet, he likes noise. I like to sleep in the dark with the TV off and he likes to sleep in the light with the TV on. He also likes to get up around 3am to cook whick wakes me up and makes me cranky. Maybe we will have to try living apart and asee if that works for us!

It does happen to couples sometimes as it truly is very hard to adapt with different personalities. I can only say that my boyfriend and I made it 5 years two days ago and I can't imagine life without him. I was married once before and let's just say neither one knows where the other is, and I am so happy about that. I am glad that your husband and you recognize the issues that preclude you both from staying together full-time, as it sounds like that at least neither one takes the other for granted and well are trying the best that you can.

Definitely living together. It would be very difficult for the both of us to stay apart although we live apart every weekend. I go home to my parents' house and he goes to his. I don't feel comfortable in his parents' house and so is he. So every weekend, we're not just together at nighttime but we meet during the day time. My husband and I can't just be a part for too long but I think we can survive if circumstance would call it.