she is getting married !!!!!!

Thanks maean !! First of all I have decided not to attend her marriage, but she insists me to be friends forever.. I don't know why ? but when she insists for anything I just cant refuse her !!

Hi cluster! I have to agree with louievil. The reason why you cannot refuse her request is because you still love her and care for her. If she wants you and her to be friends forever then that would be fine. But, it does not necessarily mean that it is proper to attend her wedding just because she asks you to go. Are you a martyr? You should not be. She has moved on and it is time for you to move on. The only reason why she wants you to be friends with her is because she was not hurt when you broke up. She may have hurt a little, but not like the hurt that you felt. She is going to marry someone and not you that made her moved on and the pain is no longer there in her. She is unconsciously wanting you to be friends with her because she knows you cannot refuse her. Take a distance for now. You can still be friends when the proper time comes. Take some time to heal your wounds and when you are prepared, that's when the time you personally be friend with her again. To be friends with an ex does not necessarily need a personal appearance when she needed you. You can show your friendship with her in other ways.

Hi louievill She find someone more economically stable than me !! I would have win the race if she could judge people on their FEELINGS.