if I should LOVE again...i am sure it won't be YOU..

Okay I'll give second chance but not the third time.

halu jai i did it already my dear,.lol because he hurt me many times,i forgiven him and giving him many chances but he doesn't stop hurting me.until i was tired for it. take care jai

Hello I am happily married since 45 years, i never had premarital love affairs in my opinion if some body broke ones heart, he/she should never be trusted for the second time,,, just forget and ignore,, this world is full of cheaters.. Thank you so much for this discussion. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead. God bless you.

I love someone !! too much !! Now she is not with me either. I am sure, i can't love anyone else like that, and now not to her also.

Good Morning Jaiho, Giving another chance to someone is also giving the chance to do the same mistake again, no one wants to find someone who is similar to someone who cause sorrow and pain in the past of her/his life. I 'd rather walk alone with a happy heart and smile on my face than to holding while walking to someone who can give me sorrow and pain that can lead me to hatred and negative outlook in life. Maybe if he will ask me if i can love him again i will tell him " I already did and you let it go, I want someone else who is not like you".No difference in telling it won't be him again. :D It seems you are doing good now and i am happy for you :) love yah!

I am the type of person i guess that when i let of anything in my life, i wont be crawling back to get it nor accept it back... cause I in the first i don't want to make the same mistake over and over again!

Hi sister, If the person left you/me by breaking the heart how can we trust the person again. Moreover he/she took long time to realize the mistake then better to draw strong line in between. dear, I am not an easy forgiving person if somebody hurts me even in friendship. I will try my best to maintain the friendship and relationships but if a person felt uncomfortable with me better to let the person ‘GO’. However, please remember, I won’t give a chance to you for coming back Love you, have a nice weekend to you.

from a broken heart's standpoint: "damn no! where was him when i needed him the most? he doesn't have a single idea he put me to hell. the pain is freaking killing me! he deserves no place in my life again."

For me, it depends. If I really love this person and he did it once and unintentional or let say was influenced by something that he could not resist, probably I would be able to give him another chance. Why? Mainly because why is he there asking for forgiveness? Maybe he just did it abruptly and soon realized that he still need and want to win me back. On the contrary, if he did something that really made a deep scar in my heart that caused me to forget all the good things we've shared, well then, that could make me get over him that fast and easy, thus I could pushed him away.

Hi didi.. I think you have something negative in your life. I don't know what and never ask in public. BUt be sure... True love comes once in a life and never forget to welcome it. For me, i have already run a lot for a true love and when it will come, definitely i shall ask it for my second life. Have a nice day.

It's hard to move on from a broken heart. there are so many feelings and emotions that overtake you. When you finally get to a point where you thnk you have gotten over the past, it comes back to haunt you. This is a true test of your character when you are faced with the one who broke your heart. Everyone deserves a second chance. We have to be the one willing to give it. We are all human and forgiveness is something that helps us to move forward.

Hello jaiho, If only i can teach my heart then why should i be on his arms again the second time? There's a song that goes like this. I'd rather have bad times with you than good times with some else I'd rather be beside you in storm, than safe and warm by myself I'd rather have hard times together, than to have it easy apart I'd rather have the one who holds my heart.. . . And i believe that there's only one love, one great love that no one can replace it. True love can cause us great pain but after the spirit of deep forgiveness there's heaven awaits. Happy Mylotting!!

Hardly Doubting that this will happen but even if it happens i'll think about it of course . Yes she broke my heart , but i don't mind risking heart brake again instead of just being lonely and well we already know a lot of our mistakes and our bad sides . Well if i have someone else i will not even reconsider :) It really depends on the situation and on the two persons :P

Coming from someone who isn't always good at the relationship thing and who tends to screw up a lot, I would say I would forgive the person. There's no reason to hold a grudge towards someone..especially if they're truly sorry and would like to change. I also don't think it would take that much bravery to turn them away after they hurt you. If anything, it seems to me like that would be taking the easy way out and letting your fear of possibly getting hurt again, get the best of you. But, that's just me. :)

sure, I will really accept her love.Because every individual in this earth will do a mistake .And once they realized there mistake its more than enough instead punishing him/her is waste of time.And one more thing is if they realized there mistake they will not make that mistake again.And in case of love we cannot hate the person we loved most and if we hate them then it is not a true love .As far as in my case I will surely accept her love .

Hello, This reminds me of a song by Lara Fabian, [i]Did I ever tell you how you live in me Every waking moment, even in my dreams And if all this talk is crazy And you don't know what I mean Does it really matter Just as long as I believe I will love again Though my heart is breaking, I will love again Stronger than before I will love again Even if it takes a lifetime to get over you Heaven only knows, I will love again People never tell you The way they truly feel I would die for you gladly If I knew it was for real So if all this talk sounds crazy And the words don't come out right Does it really matter If it gets me through this night If I'm true to myself, nobody else can take the place of you But I've got to move on, tell me what else can I do I will love again One day I know, I will love again You can't stop me from loving again, breathing again Feeling again I know, one day, I'll love again [/i] It's important that you move on. But to move on, it's important to forget and leave behind your past. And to forget things you need to forgive him. I know it's very hard. But it is necessary for your own wellbeing and for the sake of people who are connected with you. Don't even think if he deserves forgiveness. Forgive him just because you want to have a better life for yourself. You want to move on. Thanks. God bless you.

Hi sweetie. I won't give another chance. Why leave me in the first place then? It only means you will leave and hurt me again. I won't take that chance at all. I would rather say that i should love again, but it won't be him then. We can be hurt only so much, then it's done and oveer with. TATA.

Looking back at my past relationships I have to say I would never get back as there is a reason why the broke my heart in the past, and well it took me time to move on. I do not go back in life at all, perhaps because it was painful.

Once a person has betrayed you, it would be very difficult to trust him/her again. Forgiving the person will help the wound heal and move on. But forgiving does not mean getting back with the same person. Both are entirely different. Forgiving the person is to heal yourself and in some small way feel satisfied that the person has realised that he/she has hurt you which he/she should not have done. But that is the extent to which I would be willing to go. Getting back with that person is a definite no even though it would be too tempting. Once the trust is broken, it is very difficult to build it again. If it was my husband, I would at least think about it for my daughter's sake. But if it was someone else, then a definite no.

There is only one person who has truly broken my heart. I see him as a complete monster now. So, I will be one of those people who is brave enough to say "If I should love again, I am sure that won't be you." My heart could never love such a person again.