did you already find your true love?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
December 3, 2010 4:57pm CST
hi guys
did you already find your true love? or not yet? about me i think that my ex is my true love sometimes i really feel that way when we talk but sometimes i dont know what to think. but he is cute and i dont want him to find a gf in his country. i just would be so happy if was near him and we could be so happy i feel i just need him and nothing else ^^ but i will let things happen without rush any and without expect too too much.
what about you guys? did you already find your true love? why? please share^^
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@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
hiya sis!
you dont want him to find a gf in our country? you're really funny. youre too sweet for him dear. :)
as for me, havent found my true love i guess.
im just too patient to wait and see maybe he is my prince charming after all.
but until then, i have to keep up with all the disappointments he's been causing me.
thank god for all the patience he bestowed me :)
i hope to at least say that he is my true love but unfortunately, he's not..YET..
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
thanks so much sis nikki^^ i really wish that he fight for me. he said he will find a job next year and we will meet next year and im trusting him^^ im sorry for your situation that i know is very complicated. anyway i really wish that he can decide what he wants fast and that doesnt let you go bcs you are the one that loves him and he loves ^^ if he choose the other way he will be unhappy bcs there is no love anymore so.
@amora123 (85)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
I have also thought that i have already find my true love. But when the day we broke apart i just realized that there are things which is not meant to be mine. But i do believe that in the right time, the right well come along my way and I am waiting for it to come. No need to rush. Because true love well find us someday..
Anyway is your relationship with him is a long distance relationship?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
amora im sorry for what happened to you^^ but dont worry im sure that you will meet your true love someday^^ we all meet it someday sooner or later. sorry that your ex wasnt the one for you though. about me yes me and my ex we are very far away and we were having a long distance relation but we broke up bcs he didnt have time for me. but we decided to meet next year near each other bcs he will also find a job so is easier that way^^
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Haven't found mine yet but i'm happy with what i have right now. She makes me feel like a million bucks each day that i'm with her. Although it seems perfect, i just know that she's not the one for me. She has certain attitudes that won't work for me.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
I just need somebody right now that's why i can't let her go just yet. I know it's selfish but everyone needs someone. I won't miss the right one, for sure. I'm looking for too.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
im happy that you feel happy with your gf for now^^ anyway you know that she isnt the one for you so you are with her only till the right one appears? thats a bit strange. maybe you shouldnt be with a girl that you know isnt the true love of your life. maybe you really should wait for that special girl to come^^ or you might miss it while you are busy with this gf you have that even loving her isnt the one that is meant to you.
@craigy123456789 (1759)
•
4 Dec 10
I guess my first true love will always be the one. She really did touch my heart in many different ways, someone that i will never ever forget. Now at this moment in time i am single but happy with life, yes i would like to meet someone that i could again fall in love with and i would hope that i get the feelings that i had with my first true love. I had a proper long term relationship with my true love, we did many many things together. But the relationship failed and we do move on. I feel that you need to move on from your ex also, yes it takes time but you don't need to rush things, as each day passes your ex will fade more and more from your life and maybe in time you will be happy with someone new, someone whoo you actually spend lots of time with. I hope you do get that as you do deserve to be happy.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
thanks so much craigy for wish me happiness^^ i also wish the same for you that you can find a girl to be happy with. thats great that your first love is still in your memory but i wish you find a girl that you can love more than that girl bcs that yes will be your true love^^ about me and my ex i dont know what will happen but i would like to meet him near at least and then see what will happen^^ if we are meant or not. i just would like to meet him and see^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
yes i guess so^^ im very happy that you found your true love and that you feel you cant live without him^^ its cute that if he doesnt appear you miss him already and i wish that he feels the same for you too^^ thats cute that you feel safe besides him and that you feel he is your true love^^ i guess that if you feel he is the only guy you want to be with till the rest of your life then yes he is your true love^^
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
i think i found my true love already. me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and a half now and well i admit we sometimes argue too and have misunderstandings but we all know that that is just normal in every relationships. i hope we just last forever :) and yeah this is my first boyfriend and i never though i could find someone who will love me very much too. when we were in high school, most of my friends had multiple heart breaks already and i was like so innocent that time because i was like child like but when i got to college, i met my boyfriend and at first i was still not sure if ill say yes to him to be my boyfriend but he just never fails to amaze and treat me special. he always see to eat he does the best thing he can to make me feel loved and secured. so to other girls out there, do not look for your true love, it will love before you know it :)
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
thats so cute that you are together since so many years and that he always treated you so sweet^^ i see that he really is a cute and sweet guy that deserves to be so happy with you^^ he is a sweet guy that really loves you so much and didnt give up on you when you didnt know if should accept him or not. im very happy for you really you deserve to be happy and im very happy that the right guy found you^^ about the right boy finds us i wish so^^ i need that a boy find me^^
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
4 Dec 10
Hi sweet love forever: I haven't found my true love yet. I think that's because I'm a shy guy and because I prefer to study and do intellectual things instead of being a party boy that I can't find a couple. I think just as you do that we don't have to force situations. just live your life and in case this boy it's the one for you, you'll find the way to be with him. I wish you good luck with that.
ALVARO
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
im happy that you are waiting for your love^^ and i really wish that you can find it soon^^ maybe in your job you can find the right woman for you. i really wish you the best of luck. you seem a good guy and deserve to be happy. about me yes i will continue living my life and see what will happen between me and my ex but sure we need to fight for each other otherwhise will be impossible to be together.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
4 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Since when he become your 'ex'? I feel so sad to hear it from you. Have you already decided so? I think you need to wait some time more. Once he is settled from his problems, he will come to you. Did he ever said 'he don't require you'? If so, find out why? He has his own problems and issues, which he may need time to resolve, may be 6 months or more. But as he love their family, does it mean that he don't like you. Tell him pleasingly that you are waiting and he will come back to you.
Thank-s
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
7 Dec 10
Hi dear,
What I wish to say is that, you need to settle down somewhere with a nice job. You try to find a suitable job, permanent or full time job anywhere and settle down first. Once you are ok with your surrounding with a fixed income and try to convince him. If you both are sill to look out for a stable level, it may be practically difficult to lie together with one persons income. So ideally it may be better for both of you to come down with basic things properly by one year time and once all are almost done, you both can for the marriage deal. Do you think it will work out?
Regards,
Thank-s
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
thanks for your worry but is decided already^^ me and him we broke up but we are waiting for each other. im waiting he solves his problems till next year. i will wait that he does as he promised me so i will only trust his words. i will continue trying to find a good job that let me help my family and also save enough to go and see him like was planned before. i just give up on love when there is nothing else to fight for but while there is i dont give up.
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
I'm one of the luckiest person in the right now, maybe because I found my true love & I'm his true love too.. Actually he's my first & last love & he is the same to me too...
My husband was my first serious boyfriend, my first on almost anything. He's the only man that saw me naked, saw my whole body. My two ex, they only get to kissed & hug me but they never saw me naked nor even saw some parts of my body that's not for official seeing. ;)
I'm the very first girlfriend of my husband & his last..He's the sweetest of all & I'm glad he's with me now. True love is not about wanting to be with a man you want, it's about how much you would sacrifice for him. I did sacrificed a lot of things for my husband, lots & lots of things. I've cried tons of tears for him, I gave up all that i have just to be with. I gave up my own life to be with him,I'm not gonna tell you how much I suffered but I tell you it was superb, but it made me strong. The best part of it was, all those worst things that happened to us made our relationship more stronger & we both felt like our love to each other was so strong that no storms can break us now.
Pray for your true love to really come, I too did the same.. I prayed for my husband, I prayed that if God will allow me to be in a relationship,it will be on the man that I will be spending my whole life with, & it did happened.
Hoped you also find him same as i do. I'm very happy now, hope you do too.. take care...
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
yes gracielle i guess you are one of the luckiest person in the world bcs your hubby really loves you and you love him so much too what is great im very happy for you really. im sure that you had to give up a lot but im happy that you did it for a guy that deserved it. at least that way there is no regrets but only happiness bcs he also loves you so much too^^ about me i can sacrifice a lot for my ex the question is if he can do the same for me too bcs right now he is having money probs and needs to help his family so i need to or wait or let him go. and i chose to wait but lets see what happens.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
im very happy that your mum loves you so much^^ is ok if you dont show much your love but im sure that your mother knows that you love her so much and that she is very happy for that^^ you deserve to be loved a lot and she also. you are a great guy so you deserve just good things and im sure your mum is proud to have a son like you^^ have a nice day too
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
but you said before you have a gf and would ask her to marry you soon? so why now you say you didnt find your true love yet? what happened to you and your gf? did you break up? well im sorry if that happened. and a true love is that person that does everything for you and always loves you more than everything and that makes you feel you dont need no one else^^ thats the meaning^^
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@ellaangelus (283)
• Tokelau
4 Dec 10
who knows? maybe i did, or maybe i mistook it for true love. until you really find it, you can't know for sure.. i mean is supposed to be different than the others, but different how? love can come in many ways..
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
i mean if you have a bf only you know if he is the right one for you or not^^ i agree that everyone feels different things but i guess that if we find the right guy after awhile we know. anyway im happy if you can find the right guy for you bcs we all deserve to be happy with someone that really loves us and value us^^ so wish you the best really^^
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@ellaangelus (283)
• Tokelau
6 Dec 10
aww thank you ^^ that's really sweet
i hope that the one you're with right now is also Your One and only
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
7 Dec 10
thanks so muchy ella^^ i really wish that my ex is the one for me^^ he loves me and i love him and we want be together but the problem is we live so far and we are both poor. thats the only problem for the both of us but im sure that if we save money together soon we can travel to see each other and then be together^^ i just want be near him and be happy always^^ im sure he can make me very happy^^ he is so sweet^^
@monty21 (119)
• India
4 Dec 10
I did not find true love for me so far. As i think there is no true love in this world and this world is full of selfish people. Whenever i consider someone as good person, but end of the day, he is also selfish. So, i tried to stop myself looking for true love.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
im sorry for it monty but that happens with everyone. sometimes we think that someone is the true love and then we see wasnt. and that we were wrong but thats normal that that happens. it happened to me too a few times already. dont give up of finding love but let it find you. love finds everyone sooner or later we just need to be patient and fight for it.
@zenkey23 (416)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
for me as a teenager, sometimes things came on my mind telling me that i really found my love one. but im wrong. because of expecting too much i sometimes feel sad:( and because of that i learned to not EXPECT TOO MUCH:) it will just ruined my daily mood and make me stressed if i expect on things that is hard to achieve^^ so maybe i will just let my destiny find me hehe:)
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
yes zenkey i guess you are right^^ me too i also expect too much always and then i get disappointed i guess that we are the same but you are a boy and im a girl^^ anyway i really wish that you find the right girl for you soon bcs you really deserve to be happy^^ you deserve the best really. you should let your destiny finds you thats true i guess that way you wont feel disappointed but happy^^
@shaggin (72131)
• United States
3 Dec 10
Aww I dont know if your ex is your true love. I think you need to experience the love from a lot more men before you say hes your true love. Its hard to know if its true love if you have nothing to compare it to. I feel like the guy I am with right now is who I am meant to be with but only time will tell.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
i see what you mean shaggin^^ but i just felt that way bcs yesterday we talked and i was so happy bcs he was caring so much for me and he loves me and he feels guilty for almost dont have time for me. thats why when i broke up he lets me go bcs didnt have time for me :) he is very sweet, honest and understanding. just is having probs right now that dont let him focus only in me. i understand he needs to help his family for now and maybe someday we can be together^^ im happy that that boy you like maybe is the man for you^^ that would be great^^ is he being sweeter to you»? i really wish so^^
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@jalucia (1431)
• United States
3 Dec 10
Like you, sometimes I think that I have. But, circumstances don't really allow for us to give it a real shot. I would like us to be able to give a real shot, but life is so complicated that it often stands in the way. I also wish that I could get inside of his head to find out if really feels like I do. I think if one is able to be with their true love, they can make it through anything.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
i think like you^^ if both really try to make things work nothing can stop that love^^ as long as both fight for it. but if you love that boy why dont you try to investigate if he also loves you? talk with him and ask him if he loves someone and try to see if its you the one he loves still^^ if is doesnt make sense that both are away from each other but should be together^^
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
thats great that you are married with a girl that you love so much and that you will be married since 4 years soon^^ im so so happy for you^^ you are a good guy and deserve to be happy^^ i really wish that it can last for a lot of years. you deserve to be happy bcs you are a good guy that really care for your wife. you deserve just good things^^ wish you the best^^
@ansi09 (151)
• Tunisia
4 Dec 10
Where are you true love, i can't find you, hahaha :D
I had an online relationship with someone wfrom the usa, it lastes more than a year, but it failed at the ned, not coz we don't love each other, but coz of distances, i couldn't join her :-(
I gess even if someone findhis true love, he make sure he/she live near where he live, LOL, so he/she won't get hurt in someway.
After this experience i learned how important to have a relation with someone near you, i gess that way you'll have more chances of getting the relation succeed.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
no ansi i believe that if the love is true it will really happen no matter how far you are from each other^^ why didnt you save money and went to meet her near? you could save money together with her and both see each other? that would be great i guess^^ anyway im happy that you loved her at least and that she loved you too. and i wish that soon you find your true love^^
@mustafarox (453)
• India
4 Dec 10
well I feel yes I have as my girlfriend is the best person I have ever met and I am deeply in love with her and I just cannot live without her she is like air to me if she is not there I will die and I am lucky that even she loves me a lot....
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
im very happy that you really love your gf so much and that she is very important in your life^^ dont worry im sure that she wont leave you bcs for what you say she also loves you so much^^ and sure you are lucky to have someone that loves you so much but she also is lucky to have a boy that loves her so much too bcs is hard to find faithful guys and she found it so^^
@wollivierre (687)
• United States
19 Dec 10
i don't know but i don't really care at this point i'm going back to how i was 5 years ago.