It's hard to Let down a Friend...

hi letran Well my opinon is that if he can make time for mylot even without owning his own personal pc and he is also great at making interesting discussions he is indeed one of our best. I can just imagine how hard it would be to mylot without your own personal computer. and he is to be complimented for trying to get a mylot reunion in the Philippines all on his own. I wish there was some way to have a reunion for us mylotters all but we come from aos many far away places it would be impossible and of course a lot of live on teensy budgets so traveling more than few miles is prohibitive. so kudos to this fried of yours who is a great mylotter. P.M. H.

The other day a member asked to trade links and I normally do not do this and well I thought I would give it a try and clearly made it clear to the member after checking his links, that I would take one but could not promised to be faithful with the site, since he had already signed up to one of mine. But anyways it takes almost two months to earn one dollar and this does not make any sense even though it is instant payment as it takes well over 1 1/2 hours daily to earn 4 cents and I do not have this kind of patience. So I was upfront and told him that although I am a very faithful referral that this I could not promise I would do for long. So I finally cashed out and kissed the site good by, as I do not see any sense in spending hundreds of hours to simply make one dollar when I can apply the time to my other sites and do way better. So I was very upfront with the member, and if the member ever gets upset oh well, I was honest from day one and well the member also has to understand that it is not about making sure he earned but that my time also was very precious to me and well I cannot live off one dollar every two months. See any sense there??

Hi, LK. One of your most outstanding quality is that you are not plastic. You say what's on your mind and you mean it. That's why I like you LK because you're an honest guy and I could easily get what I need to hear from you. As for you on turning down the invitation, I thin it's okay. And that friend is not of any right to be mad at you or "make tampo" because it's your choice. And it's your life. I don't mind meeting any of you here. But if the time is right, the EB thing is okay and will look forward to it. =)

I really appreciate those who take every opportunity to be here against all odds. I had a brief interaction with him yesterday and am happy to know that he is serious in organizing a reunion for all mylotters. I hope it materialize and might become an annual affair. So there is reason for others to come to Philippines for future reunions.

I like His Proposal about the Mylot reunion, and it's only in PAsay. but it's not easy to take a day off as a JANITOR in a very busy mall in MAKATI.am sure he understands, there's always next year.

I wonder, how can you attend when you don't have money.you barely save you're money from selling ice, instead you bought snacks and pet food :D even if you go, i doubt i can approve it since you got house choirs and Christmas time is Family time. if you want you can asked him to re schedule for "you're availability" if he really admires you that much.

Look at this way, It's better to be honest, Upset him and let him understand. Or pretend you agree and then lie about having an emergency, which is more upsetting, Being Honest or Being humiliated for Lying? In my opinion, there are good and great lotters besides him. but i have participated some of his topics. in the past. I think both of you are different, but of course, if you prefer being "ALL READY" before agreeing to such reunion, be my guest.

Is that you're Honest Opinion? Why can you just be more Honest with him Like "sorry Rberon1985, am LAZY going out on any trip this christmas and the timing sucks"(joke). well, it's actually true, since you can't even load you're mobile phone. you're even lazy in texting, so that doesn't surprise me because you're lazy enough to get you're butt and look for a job even janitors and high school can get a job if they the will! "

Letran do not be afraid to mention my name.It's your right.let them know that i was the one who invited you.i'm sorry if it turns foreceful.i'm not doing this for my own happiness.i can focus on other things if i want.i work in a call center, you know and i should be sleeping everytime i'm out of the office.but i take time to log in here because i love the site.why am i convincing you to come over?because many members demands you to be there.many members respect you.most of them believe in you.don't you know that you motivated them with your posts?i don't have any intentions.i am the organizer of the event and it is my responsibility to invite members.and before i decide on this event, you were the first person that came into my mind bethe guest speaker,because honestly i idolize you for your great posts. Letran all you have to say is "No".we don't have to post discussions like this.we don't have to argue. i'm not mad at you.you have the right to express your feelings.i am just sad that you don't see my point why i want you to be in the event.i hope this time you already know. With your post,i don't know if i would be happy or i will be sad.there some points that your bring me up and there are points that you really bring me down.you are right.i don't have my own pc this time.until now,it is being repaired(i don't know if it will still be fix)but still i find time to do this event.i'm sorry to hear that if it is like bragging you.don't worry that this will be the last time that i will invite you.i'm sorry if my invitation really bothers you because you were able to post several discussions about this issue.i hope this issue will be closed.i will just let them know that you can't come. Anyway,i have already met Neil yesterday as well as jane and honey because we visited Neil's son in the hospital.you know what did jane and honey ask me?"is letran coming on the reunion"?i can't answer them back.because i don't receive any confirmation from you.now,it's clear.i can give them a clear answer which is "NO".I really hope that this issue will be closed.we are all happy here.we are here to meet other people from different walks of life.i just organize a little event because i want to strengthen the team at the same time to celebrate the successful operation of the son of one of your friends as well here in mylot-Neil.Later on this afternoon,i will post our first meet up.

hello Letran, I understand your situation bro. I am also working and it would be difficult for me to say YES or NO either. My work schedule is not fixed,so i told rberon that i can't promise to come,but i said i will try my best to attend the occasion (even if i will come late if ever) I am sure the reunion will be a complete success if other mylotters Philippines will support this event to show all mylotters (around the globe) that we support each other. Last Monday i was at work for 18 hours and haven't had slept when i met rberon,neil and honey (3 mylotters) It was a real fun (worth it) We met at the hospital where zay2 had his operation and then go out for a late dinner or early breakfast (Tuesday 1:30am )at SICILIAN Express (Italian restaurant) Rberon go directly to hospital after his work (12 midnight). Same with me,we both doesn't have slept (since i worked 18 hours) I will try to post our picture,i hope i still look okay (haven't slept). But it was fun meeting mylotters in person... I just hope you can make it,it's still a days away dear brother

Hi, Knight.:) So, finally, you are talking about this guy, ei. You have triggered my curiosity who the guy is who have thought of organizing EB for Mylot users. At least I can check his profile now.:) Well, this guy will surely understand why you have to refuse an offer.You must have a very valid reason to do that. At least, you have been very honest to let him down right away than giving him false promises because you know from the very beginning that you surely wouldn't make it. Letting a person down could be a sad thing but, hey, there is always next time. He should try convincing you again next time. Maybe , you're free to go by that time then.:)

No. it's not you're fault. I admire you for being honest, pretending to agree on something you're not makes it actually matters worse. that's when you loose you're reputation in any place, including here.

Why do you need to explain? Is this guy you're Boyfriend? if it's just a friend then you don't have to. obviously, he couldn't accept the fact that you're not available. or probably you risk loosing you're mylot reputation if they see you in public.I don't know him but i do remember barging in, you said he created that? great!

You just have to be honest and don't pretend. Besides, I was wondering how come he has time to mylot when you said he has no pc. Is he using his time at call center to write in mylot, i don't think it's right.

Yea it's good that you make your stand. You're better than those who make empty promises and walk out just like that and some are even worst. They don't even notify others.

It's good to help out. However, if you're kinda hesitant in doing so, I suggest that don't do it. Sometimes helping out with a wrong heart or an unsettled mind leaves you unfulfilled and it might not end that well also.