what to do with these kind of wifes?
By KRTWORLDWIDE
@KRTWORLDWIDE (511)
India
December 4, 2010 10:57am CST
My friend got married 4 months back. His wife holds a dominant character by birth. She wants her husband to dance according to his tunes. She also has no regard for the respect of elders. She refuses to obey my friends father and mother right from the beginning. If my friend tries to control her, she then threatens saying that she will file a false dowry case. My lost lost his peaceful life altogether. What to do with this kind of wifes?
4 responses
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
I'm not very serious about my response but why not put her in jail? The grounds are way clear. It would be foolish to be abused by wives with that character. Yeah they are not killing somebody but they hurt the hearts of those around them. So do you agree with the idea that they be imprisoned?
@draniembohol (55)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
you maybe right, but the thing here is that the wife doesn't know what role is she to act. maybe they will have to visit a marriage counselor or whichever. we don't have to stop here. as the saying of other myloters, he should have to dig deeper on what's the background of her wife to be. first and foremost is that we marry to have a long lasting relationship. so we must be careful in choosing our lifetime partner. happy myloting.
@marga1433 (90)
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
well... nothing to do with that but to bear with fat that she is his wife... right from the beginning, he has a choice but then he chooses to marry her. so, he have to accept that fact... right?
@diamania (7011)
• Netherlands
4 Dec 10
Divorce and tell kids never to marry. I am not saying this to offend any religion or anyone's choice but I have seen and heard so many people ruin their lives by marrying.
Marriage isn't a seal of warranty or anything and solid relationships don't need marriage to confirm it's solid status. ;-)
( My English, I hope the message came across in good state ;))
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
5 Dec 10
My question to your friend would be why did he marry her, as you stated it was only four months and surely she had to be this way prior to being married. I am pretty sure she had met his parents prior and did they too not see the signs.
I wish your friend good luck as this has to be a really eye opener for him. As if a spouse can't respect our parents then there is no hope for the person.
