Have you ever had a friend act mad at you and you didn't know why?

I just asked her. Sometimes they get upset with us, know it is immature or probably not realistic and so they don't say anything but act weird. Or it could be a situation where their boyfriend made some comment about me and they took it wrong and thought he had the hots for me. That was a good one. She was jealous. Who knows what she is weired out about. I would just ask her.

My ex, during her period, is like this almost all the time. Although I saw how she controlled herself in getting angry without any reason, it just couldn't be helped at all. She would just burst out on me without warning and then I'd apologize for something I didn't do.

HI JENN, I have had that happen alot over the years.It drives me nuts for people to do that. If i have made someone mad i'd alot rather they tell me that to act so cold. I think that's very immature. If someone p.o me i sure want them to know about it, lol. I hate to lose friends but i think once they get their tail in the air about something there's not much u can do to change the way they act. I don't know if it's the right way to be but if someone makes me mad or hurts my feelings i have a tendacy to just leave them alone.

Hi Jen~ I believe you have mentioned this particular friend before awhile ago and that you were worried about here "change in attitude" then. This was quite awhile ago, if I'm remembering correctly and this is the same friend. You said it happened right after she got married too. And asking her didn't get you anywhere? Am I right so far? I don't know what to tell you except at this point if I'm wrong ignore my entire response and laugh!lol But, I don't think I am because I pay attention to what you say. I would say if you and a few more of her friends could get together to confront her (yeah, like an interventtion) (aka gang up) I would try at this point.

My dearest friend one time would not answer my calls and or return a text for no absolute reason. So after trying for some time I decided to give it time as I simply could not understand why. We did not live in the same state so it would not have easy to go and see her. It broke my heart as I really did nothing wrong, then it turned out that she misunderstood a situation that someone occurred which had nothing to do with me. After some time I blocked my number as it was really bugging me as most people who knew us thought we born tied to the hips. It turns out she was angry and she finally realized it had nothing to do with me, but she could not face me to apologize. I believe this made me angry with her. Although we are amicable our friendship really is over as I can't help but remember how we were suppose to be good friends and she not have the courage to apologize and or at least say something about the fact she thought I had something to do with the matter.

It happens to me all the time, especially with my girlfriend. We would be walking down the park, holding hands than all of a sudden she stops talking to me :D . The really annoying thing is, she never tells me what she's mad about. Fortunately I've gotten used to it and i don't pay attention to her "moments of anger" anymore.

Hi JenIn They are not a good Friend if they can not be open with you I can have moods not as often as I used because of my Illness specially when I am not well but I always say to my Friends ....look I am going through a tough time right now so if I am being cold or strange it is not you..... they know that and will bear with me If one of my Friends has done something to upset me I will tell them in a gentle way, like I expect them to tell me if I have done or said anything wrong Your Friend needs to loose her attitude and speak is all I can say I have had so called Friends like that in the past and just came away from them as I could not handle it

My life experience -I had a friend for whom I was ready to do anything. Infact she was my colleague at Office. But once I left that company, she stopped calling me, she never even responded when I had been to my ex-office. Now she is married but she did not even call her for her marriage. I really dont know what did I do to her and why she does not want to speak to me. I have never been harsh to her neither I hurted her anytime. Its more than 3 years now and she never called me till now. She has even my number from her mobile.

Hello, jen. I have my experience too with a friend who got mad at me thag i don't know the reason. And then after confronting her, she told me that I didn't say Hi. At that time, I was busy rushing because it's hard to get home with you only commute and I think I heard someone calling my name but failed to face in that direction. It was a little funny actually. But I asked for her forgiveness and explained my situation at that time. She was a little sensitive at that time because of a problem and I am one of her friends who usually listen to her whenever she encounters a problem. And she's a good friend too so we patched things up right away. =) )

Oh yes, I have had this happen a few times in my life. It is usually because I say something and it is misinterpreted as to mean something else, usually something nasty, which is never my intent at all. The most awkward people are thos who just act strange without saying why. I tend to speak my mind and expect my friends to do the same, but alas they don't. So I usually have to confront them and get them to tell me what's upsetting them, and then I can usualy clear up and misunderstandings which is all it is really. _Derek

My high school years were filled with these moments. so much time was spent chasing friends to find out what you did or said to make them mad at you. some of the silliest reasons would come about.

I know it's happened to me, but I can't think of a specific instance, so I can't tell you what I did. But, I think I would have asked her what's bothering her. Was there something I could do to help. If her marriage is going badly, even though she's a friend, she may be reluctant to talk about it. She might think you and others might judge her, so she's clamming up. Then, again, there could be something completely different. Maybe she's received bad news about her health, about a member of her family, etc. and thinks this is something that should remain amongst family. The only thing you can do is ask...and I would. But be prepared to get, "none of your business", "you did xxxx"... Then go from there.

I've had a freind do that towards me. I couldn't figure out what was wrong for almost a month. After a whole month went by I found out that she was upset because I guy that she liked liked me. I can't control other peoples actions! I didn't understand why she was mad at me for this. I thought it was completely ridiculous and that she was acting like a child.

yes i also experience a friend being angry or upset with me and i dont even know why:( my friend started to lie to me and started making fun of me:( but i think it is because of some people who influence my friend to be like that. i cant blame my friend`s attitude because she made it on her own will. but i miss those happy chit-chats we made on our lunch breaks:(

No I haven't . But then again I can and usually do read my friend's mood Before they even speak. If it is a online friend they Usually tell me they are pi$$ed off and then I ask why.That's my advice , ask her why. I'm 3 weeks late coming to this post. I hope things are better by now.

Hi Jen, I had a very good friend years ago that suddenly started acting that way. I just finally confronted her with it and refused to leave her apartment until she talked. We'd been friends since kindergarten and I just could not fathom any reason why she was suddenly avoiding me and acting distant. Well..it turned out that my husband had been hitting on her. I'm sure this isn't the case with your friend. From what you say, it sounds as if it has something to do with her being married. Maybe her husband is controlling? It's hard to say. If she were a really good friend and a friend that I valued the friendship then I would invite her to coffee and ask her and also let her know how much I missed her as a friend. It doesn't sound as if you've done anything wrong. You guys are friends...talk to her.

It happened to me once at work a few years ago.. A co-worker I used to get along quite well with suddenly stopped speaking to me and would not explain what the problem was which left me very puzzled! I trained her on the job and moved on to another position and she took over my job. I found out months later that she began acting strangely towards me because she presumed I was jealous of her taking over my job and that I was the one no longer speaking to her which was the most ridiculous thing I had ever heard as I was enjoying my new position! I think she may have had her own issues because the situation made no sense. Sometimes people have their own hassles and we tend to think it is about us but it isn’t really; if the other person is not willing to discuss what the problem is there is not much you can do but leave that person to it and move on.

Hey Jen! Sorry you are having to go through this. I don't recall having a friend mad at me...at least not since I have been an adult. I am very confrontational (in a good, polite way), but I would ask the person if you did something to make them mad, or if you accidentally offended them. It would be difficult for me to know that someone is mad at me for something I know nothing about, and it would bug me...as I am sure it is bothering you. Good luck, and I hope you and your friend get things resolved. On a different note, what is up with all this cold weather in Tennessee?? We had snow flurries up on the mountain all day today...burrrrrrrrr!!!!

I raise my hand in guilt! I think I may have done this a few years back. There was this couple that were originally really good to my family. My only problem was they kept forcing their religion to us. One day, they did something that I thought really crossed the line. So, I acted mad around them. I think they did not know why. Yes, I know I was bad.

I would simply ask her to tell you if perhaps you might have said something to offend her and why she's acting somewhat cold to you. if this is a close friend of yours , she should be able to discuss whatever is causing her to change her attitude toward you.Whenever i come in contact with someone close to me who seems to be acting somewhat distant,i feel the best thing to do is directly mention this to him or her and most of the time i find that it has nothing to do with me, but some personal problem they may be having at the time.