Have you ever experience the happiness of love and the pain of it. How was it ?

Love - Have you ever experience the happiness and pain of love? How was it?
Hong Kong
December 6, 2010 2:10am CST
Love is a word that will cost you lot of emotion , feeling, thinking as well. It will be a happiness memory if you enjoy it. However, it will also create sadness and many hurtful feeling as well. But as long as we live human, we do need love to help us to go on with our life. Love is just like a coin with two sides on it. It really depends on which side you can flip on it. Well, I think there are so many people can share about their experience and enrich our life in mylot. Share with us about your insight and experience.
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11 responses
@robin001 (16)
• India
6 Dec 10
I have had experience love.It is not just a word well it is of course it requires a lot of commitment.Also it is a very delicate thing which require mutual understanding,sharing emotions, feelings and happiness as well. I would conclude it as a greatest gift of GOD on mankind.
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
I remember someone told me once before that in love, we cannot choose to love and not have the pain. In loving, it is not a choice between pain or no pain, rather, it is a choice between pain in loving and pain in not loving. Being in love is magical, wonderful, unforgettable, and sometimes even indescribable. When we feel love, we feel happiness, we feel the essence of life and we are showered with all its wonderful gifts. But we also feel pain, which is devastating and sometimes too much for us to handle. But for me, pain is there to strengthen us, to balance our lives. Pain is there to remind us of our mistakes, to help us learn. And in turn, we can love better, we can give more love and less pain. :)
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
7 Dec 10
it's too long to describe here and I don't feel like looking back enough to say I have seen more love hurts than love heals both to my self and to others but all these teach me to love and respect myself because other wise, nobody else would
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
Hello wildlittlefan! I believe that all of us will encounter the happiness as well as pain/loneliness when it comes to Love. I think, we cannot really appreciate real happiness if we have not experiences the pain. Thus, being inlove, you have to be prepared for the consequences, in the long run, if you are true to yourself, you will be able to have the happiness you sought for, cheers!
• China
7 Dec 10
i think love is wonderful in our lives,Jesus is love.everyone says Jesus is wonderful.if someone do something bad,it wil punished by Jesus.i think this will be pain of love.this is the two sides of love.
7 Dec 10
I do. And i can say that falling in love is the sweetest thing you'll ever experience in your entire life. But we should face the fact that there will always be down moments in love. Love hurts you. And it's very terrible feeling. It's like killing you. And your only choice is to move on, though it's hard.
• India
6 Dec 10
Love is a beautiful word which is a lot of emotions, feeling, thinking and sadness. It is a coin which has two parts to it. One side is happiness and the other side is sadness. If you are in deep love with a person, you are ready to anything and everything for that person to be happy. If you are not in love, you are missing something important in life.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
I have experienced the typical love hurts when the one you loved fall in love with another guy and leave you broken hearted and depressed. It happen when I am still in college and I can remember the girl but not the feeling anymore. It was an intense relationship and I though we will end married with each other. But as days go by she started to change when she meet my cousin. Then the relationship turn cold and eventually the truth reveals that she start to fall in love with another guy. The worst part is my cousin how could he betray me like that. I really don't want to remember anything at all.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
6 Dec 10
My happiness of love lasted for nearly twenty years. I did not expect it to end and to end so tragically. The pain of this love came in the loss of my husband to cancer. it is still as devastating today as it was four years ago.
@shuley (368)
6 Dec 10
A feeling of love and in love is beautiful, a feeling of happiness inside, a fulfillment in life but not all times is happy but can manage as long as your love has there beside you.
@zenkey23 (416)
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
As a teenager yes i experience the happiness and love and pain of it:) But i know its just trials and im still young so many trials would come:) And those trials must be face with strong determination,will,faith, and most of all Trust in yourself:) It is part of our Life:)