love at first sight,love at distance

@tenrajj (911)
Bhutan
December 6, 2010 7:04am CST
Lets start an interesting discussion on love. Love at first sight and Love at distance. lets see what others have to say on this two topics. Believe in love at first sight? did any body experienced it? if so was it a success? Believe in love at distance? well people say out of sight does not mean out of heart.
5 responses
• United States
6 Dec 10
I have experienced love at first sight. Honestly, I think being in love is it's own success, no matter what happens down the road. But I suppose you're referring to longevity and we have been together for seven years, we've been married for two and a half years.
• United States
6 Dec 10
I believed in being open-minded and allowing myself to acknowledge whatever my true feelings are without shame, naivete or repression. The minute I saw him I felt my whole world shift instantly. I had never felt that way about anything or anyone. I developed the habit of analyzing my attractions to men early on, so I knew the way my feelings worked and it was like nothing I had ever experienced before. I felt an almost tugging sensation deep inside what I can only describe as my soul that told me I had to be with this person no matter what it took. The more I learned about him, the stronger the feeling became until it became a completely unchangeable fact. No matter what happens, that tug deep inside has never gone away.
@tenrajj (911)
• Bhutan
6 Dec 10
It is great to hear from you. I enjoyed it. So congratulation for the success and it has been going well till now. That is good and well hope it will go well till end. My wishes.
@tenrajj (911)
• Bhutan
6 Dec 10
yes as expected. thank you for sharing your story with us. That was a success. Well people feel different and people think different and they don't believe it till it happens personally to them. so in your case please tell us did u believe in love at first sight before it happened to you. thanks
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 10
I don't think that there is such thing as love at first sight. It is only infatuation. They are only being magnetized by the good looks of the other person and mistook it for love. This kind of so called love is only short-live as once the the passion fades, which is fast and easy to go, their eyes will start roving again. Love does not come to me easily at first glance not as much as reading the words from someone. I can be easily attracted to people who writes well. The danger with me is I can fall in love easily with people thousand of miles away just by reading the words on screen. And you have explained that well here out of sight does not mean out of heart.
@tenrajj (911)
• Bhutan
6 Dec 10
well thanks for interesting post. It gives me hint that love in our case is something that needs deep understanding no matter what how he or she looks.Cover of book cannot judge its contents. Wanna relate it and say that it is not looks that human are to be judged by. I am that this because it is words that is gonna touch you be it in script or verbal. Well those who thinks well writes well and speaks well and those who thinks well are probably will be good at action. That is good but be cautioned that it might not always be true.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
6 Dec 10
Hi Ten, To be frank, I do not think there can be love at first sight. Sure, there is that attraction, liking, obsession at first sight...but I suppose that is not love. You need to know the person in order to love him/her; at least that is what I think. As for long distance love - It is hard, but if the persons in a relationship, have faith, trust and understanding between each other, distance does not matter at all.
@tenrajj (911)
• Bhutan
6 Dec 10
yea this is my view too... we are on same side. but lets see if some other mylotters have some thing different to say. It might hear a success story.
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
Love at first sight..yes could be for some people. The same thing for love at distance. Maybe before when internet is not yet around it would be difficult. But with the technologies now, we can see and communicate to whoever we want, wherever he/she may be at anytime too. The success would be very much likely to depend on the two people involved on how they would make their long distance relationship work.
• India
6 Dec 10
there is nothing like love at first sight exist.... bcoz love belongs to hearts feeling. its called infatuation. Love only starts when you start conversation and start liking some quality of other person. Cheers!!!
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
6 Dec 10
That is my view, exactly.