Coward me!

Philippines
December 6, 2010 8:54pm CST
Because I haven't had the nerve to say to someone that I hate the things he does, that he pissed me off when he acted as if he knew everything, that he thought he is very much powerful and intelligent that anyone else! Oh, that makes my mind and heart broke of this cowardice acts of mine. It's just that I don't want to hurt the feelings of others, I do not usually do such thing to avoid any trouble that might evolve. But it seems it is much more burdensome having to carry this ill feelings towards him. I kept praying for a strength to confront him..but when is that time?
4 responses
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Try to talk to him.. Tell it to him in a nice way.. Or you can tell it to him facetiously so he will not be offended. I also don't like that kind of attitude,i have an old friend,she also act like that and when i can't handle my emotion i talk to her and then she change her attitude.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
7 Dec 10
There never really is THE time, but quicker the better to get it over with. You will be doing the right thing for him and you and just be honest, don't be defensive. Just say your true feelings so that way, you'd have not regrets. Good luck.
@vicereine (451)
• United States
7 Dec 10
I think a good time is when you are both calm and not tense. It is always hard to tell someone that they are making you feel uncomfortable and you should not feel like a coward for not telling him yet. It is hard to let someone know that because you don't want to hurt their feelings and you don't know how they will react. It is just human nature to worry about what will happen and want to keep everyone happy. The only thing to remember is that you can't possibly make everyone happy so it is best to do what will make you happy first even if it does hurt someones feelings. You should not have to suffer and be uncomfortable for someone else to feel like they know it all and they are better than you.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
It's better to talk to him and make your point, keeping it to yourself costs you a thing. It does not serve you anything good, less, it's causing you burden which the other person don't have. Now is the right time to convey and make your views be known..