where is the discussion i created yesterday?

Hello april and welcome to myLot, abuse can be defined by so many factors. I do not recollect your discussions so I cannot say exactly. What comes to mind is if at anytime you place a referral link, tell members to view your profile and or start poll discussions this is immediately and or at some point deleted. Poll gets mistaken at times, basically if you tell members which do your prefer a or b this in fact is a poll. As what is there to discuss after I perhaps say a. It gets a bit confusing, but do not stay stuck on the abuse phrase. Recheck that deletion email and simultaneously review the guidelines, when I do this I clearly understand their point of view. Have fun and try your hand at responding to members with quality posting and you will see it gets easier and easier to follow the guidelines and immediately delineate when something is against the rules. happy holidays to you.